Love the way i gave it to them?
I love everyone and give my love (u see i have so much of it to give) but when it gets returned its either broken or damaged or they have lost it or put it somewhere and forgot about it.
Why do they do this? Dont they love me? Dont you love me?
2006-07-27 21:33:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Arrgh, I know exactly how you feel and its sooo frustrating... makes you want to bang your head up against the wall.
Since Ive thought these same exact things... Ive just come to the conclusion that everyone else in the world exept for an extreme few just simply arnt capable of understanding the deeper emotional feelings that some people have. I cant change anybody, or force them to have any feelings, so basically you live 2 lives... one where you pretend to be like every other heartless you know what, and then when your by yourself you let it all out and get mad because everyday you wake up hoping that you can find someone to relate with just to deal with it which never happens.... or maybe this is just how I feel and Im rambling on.
Anyway, Im convinced there are people out there capable of recipricating feelings. All you can do in the meantime is distract yourself as much as possible and think about all the things about yourself that make you such a great person. Dont know if it will work for you.... but it does me.
2006-07-27 21:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Slick Mac 2 · 8⤊ 4⤋
THEY DO LOVE YOU
There was a time in my life when I became afraid to fall in love.
Because every time I fell in love, I got hurt.
I thought maybe that's why it's called falling in love.
I would give my all, loving deeply and wholeheartedly.
It would be a truly emotional and euphoric experience.
I would be dreaming about the object of my affection day and night, imagining good times together, thinking of what I can do or buy for him to show how much I care.
I would feel light, energized and excited, blooming with the joy I feel inside.
Then somehow, something would go wrong and my whole world crash.
Disappointed, Resentment, Anger, Pain, Why?
Can we not love without feeling pain?
Is it really a price to pay for all the happiness we feel when we're in love?
It was only after many years of soul searching and reading inspirational writings that I realized that we could love without getting hurt.
Only recently did I understand what unconditional love is all about.
Love is one of the most powerful forces in the universe.
It is the fire that burns inside, the essence of being.
It is a precious gift that defines our purpose in life.
If we keep in mind that we can indeed preserve its true meaning, we can love to the fullest and be truly happy.
Accept the fact that other people express theirlove differently.
How do you express love?
You say "I love you three times a day".
You kiss and embrace as often as you can.
You never forget anniversaries.
You always prepare his favorite dishes.
How does he express love?
He rarely says, "I love you".
He seldom kisses you.
He forgets your birthday and he doesn't know how to cook.
But he works overtime, walks the dog, takes out the garbage,
takes you to the movies and calls you "Honey".
He probably loves you more than you can imagine.
He just shows it differently.
If you can accept that then you will have a healthier perspective of your relationship.
Derive happiness from giving love.
When you love, do it because you want to.
Just give it.
And cherish the satisfaction in having given someone something of yourself.
It's like giving a gift whether it is appreciated or not, find joy in simply giving.
Love without expecting anything in return.
Pain comes in when you demand something in return for the love you give.
You are setting yourself up for disappointment.
Love cannot always be reciprocal.
Love between two people can never be of the same intensity at the same time and place.
No matter how much your partner loves you, he/she will never fill all your needs all the time.
And you will be waiting in misery forever, if you believe you should love only when you are sure to receive equal love in return.
Love now.
The past is gone and the future is justa dream.
All of yesterday's aches and pains, as well as the loves and laughter, are mere memories.
Let them go.
Fantasies and worries are for a future that may never come.
Don't dwell on them.
Live now.
Give love now. Do it and enjoy it now.
Throw away those destructive habits.
When you insist upon yourself that you always have to be in control, that you always have to be right, that others must always please you, you put yourself in a very tight spot.
Loving relationships are flexible- Dynamic and evolving.
Leave room now for a change interaction.
Allow for new behavior and learning experiences.
When we welcome these in our lives, we open ourselves to sharing more love and affection and less frustration and pain.
Yes, you will say unconditional love is easier said than done.
Especially when we have always believed that love is give and take.
But believe that love is simply giving.
And you will be surprised that a lot of it, even more, actually comes back to you
2006-07-28 04:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Avatar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving everyone means absolutely nothing. Love should differentiate the people special to you from the rest. It should be personal and show a more intimate knowledge of them. Of course if you just go spouting love all over the place, you're gonna get rejected just as often.
Generic love is meaningless. I don't love you.
2006-07-28 04:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Phil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is given freely and unconditionally to be of the greatest beauty. It might be received in bits and pieces or dinged up a bit does not diminish it's beauty for it was given freely. There is a greater love yet to be found that will be returned 100%. I hope that you succeed in your quest to find it.
2006-07-28 04:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping picking up those pieces and moving on.
Eventually you will find someone who WANTS to take those pieces of your broken heart and mend them back together again.
I will tell you another secret:
When you are not looking for love, that is when it finds you!
Don't focus on what you want or don't have...focus on what is there now. Build yourself up, take up a hobby. There are plenty of single people in this world looking for love. What they are waiting for is attraction...someone who exudes confidence, who seems strong and able, someone who has goals, and knows how to accomplish them.
It is out there babe...and one of these days it is going to hit you when you least expect it.
2006-07-28 04:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to give too much and it is more than others can handle. May be you expect more than others are willing to give back, comfortably. It might be in the way you present yourself to others; possibly needy and people tend to think you are high emotional maintenance.
2006-07-28 04:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by jewels2078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give your love to right person, be a little more selective cause the last thing you want is battered and bruised love.
The right one for you is out there. Meantime have a little of mine.
2006-07-28 04:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by angelcake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you haven't find the right person yet,don't expect to much from a person,love yr self more & trust tha would be yr head start.
2006-07-28 04:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by naghtynite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we all love you.
Sending you some love right now.
2006-07-28 04:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by MoJoJoJo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have put a kick me sign on your butt. That's why you are sounding so needy. All you have to do take the sign off.
2006-07-28 04:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋