My friend (woman) confess that she falls in love with me!! What should I do? I'm a young girl and already have a bf?!
I admit that I'm bisexual... but I'm currently in love with a man. He's so loving, caring, and loyal to me. He also knows I'm bisexual and still he accepts me just the way I am. ^_^
What should I do now? I don't want to betray my boyfriend... but I also don't want to hurt my friend's feeling.... Help me, please?!
2006-07-27 21:24:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell her what you told us -that you are in love with your man & don't want to betray him. Nothing against her, but the timing just isn't right. If she's really a friend, she'll understand (not that she'll like it, but she'll understand).
2006-07-27 23:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a young girl, she's a woman, and it's child abuse or pedophilia, depending on your age. You have a boyfriend, so being loyal to him is the priority. If telling her that you will remain with the love you have at this time will upset her, then she's not worth having in your life. A woman should never look at a young girl or young man as a sexual partner. It's sick. Tell her gently that you're staying with him and take it from there.
2006-07-27 21:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a no brainer, if your in love with your bf, then explain that to your friend. If she is your friend she surely will understand.
And of course your bf is ok with your bisexuality, what straight man wouldnt be?
2006-07-27 21:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a boyfriend and you don't want to betray him.
You have to let this woman friend down (tell her she's got lousy timing!)
Good Luck
2006-07-27 23:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As kindly as possible, tell her the truth about how you feel. Better she know the truth than to go on and on with the wrong idea ... it'll only hurt a *lot* more later.
2006-07-27 23:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds hot! Get some lovin on the side from this woman while you wait and see how long it lasts with the guy.
2006-07-27 22:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Privatize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u have agreat guy that u may have a future with. if ur straight but ur friend loves u i find that wierd, stick with the guy and tell ur ffriend that the fellings just narent mutual eventhough ud like to continue ur fiendship with her. good luck!!
2006-07-27 21:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by loves2run:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being perfectly honest, my fetish is to watch two beautiful females making love. I believe two women making love are actually performing beautiful art.
2006-08-01 19:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you are not interested and try talking about your boyfriend all the time in front of her, i think then she will get the message that you are not interested in her. otherwise you will land up hurting both of them.
2006-07-27 22:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by khepo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't cheat on ur bf...maybe ask him to take a break, then experiement with ur friend... if u like it, don't get back with ur bf, if u don't like it, get back with him and just remain friends with the girl
2006-08-02 19:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋