i am a mother of 2, i stay with my boyfriend and his son. I struggle to make ends meet. My boyfriend rarely helps me to pay rent and alike. He goes out every night, comes back after midnight. i even pay school fees for his son, everything i do for my children i do for his son as well. I want to chess him out of the house, but i get worried about his son's progress especially at school, and more over, he will not have anywhere to stay. i have been with him for almost 8 years.am blank, what must i do
2006-07-27 21:06:13 · 6 answers · asked by Marina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please think of your own happiness, that guy is being spon fed and will not change. Just throw him out of that house and he will know what to do with his son. To much pity is costly mind you. Do the right thing. Just this evening tell him that you have only given him a week in which to pack up his things and son and leave you in peace. If he wants to stay then he better do something and take up the responsibilities as a man.
2006-07-27 21:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's taking you for a mug. You are a house keeper and childminder for him not just unpaid but paying for the honour. He must go, keep the boy if he regards you as mum, but then his dad will always be hanging around. These days the authorities will not let anyone with children live on the streets, so, tell him he's got to go.
2006-07-28 04:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by angelcake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving the son of your bf doesn't mean you love the man. He's so irresponsible and definitely you're not important in his life. Leave the man and get a life. Why should you put through the pain and all?
2006-07-28 04:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by denizen251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is tell him to go, he wont change why should he when your keeping him and looking after his son as well, he can live the single life knowing he as a free lodging, free child care, free home care, whats his is his, and whats yours is his, GIRL YOUR WORTH BETTER THEN HIM, let him take responsibility for is life and son who he should be ashamed to say he's father to,
2006-07-28 04:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by tors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him out and keep his son its not like he sounds like he s bothered with his son or maybe he just needs a wake up call
2006-07-28 04:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by stanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him and tell his son that the door is always open for him
2006-07-28 04:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by gonetotallymad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋