a 34 guy wants to marry me. he already got divorced twice and has 3 kids. am confused. need your advise. thanks
2006-07-27 20:59:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HELL NO!!! Way to much bagagge. He probably has some psycho ex-wife. As soon as you get married she will enter you lives and try to ruin them.
2006-07-27 21:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would look at why he was divorced 2x already. Ask him what the reasons were and also see what kind of terms he is on with his ex's. He must see his kids at some point, so just see if he is friendly with them, which would indicate that the marriage just didn't work out, rather than he was a horrible husband and they left his sorry butt.
Also keep in mind that if you marry him you are going to be a step mom to 3 kids, and you will also have to deal with his ex's. He does have quite a bit of baggage, but if you are both in love then go for it! He may just be a great guy who got married to the wrong women.
2006-07-28 04:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorced twice and has three children???? If you want to be in a ready made family, perhaps have the exes around because of the children, and marrying a man who perhaps may have a concern for relationships, I would say you'd better think twice about it marrying him....and find out WHY he divorced.
2006-07-28 04:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever stopped and ask WHY? What changes have been made that your marriage will be a success when two others before you have failed. I would think more about this before going on. There are times when history does repeat
2006-07-28 04:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him, not because he's been married twice before but simply because you had to ask the question.
2006-07-28 04:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not marry him if you are still in the "honeymoon period" of your dating.
You need to be with him longer than any of his wives have been with him. He seems to lose interest after a certain period.
2006-07-28 04:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never Ever says"never ever do it",how dare you think about it are you ready to be the mother of his fourth child!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 05:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by styleinvistigator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT....RUN, HIDE
2006-07-28 04:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋