I'm a virgin?

Question

I'm a virgin.....but lately I feel my self sooo horny and used to masturbate (I'm a woman). Is it danger for my health, could it break my hymen?
My boyfriend lives far away from me, but I feel my body really need sex. Should I give up and do it with someone?
How to make me stop masturbate? How to make me stop feel so horny?

I used only one of my finger to masturbate, is it able to break the hymen?

Answer 1

You are not mature and responsible enough to have sex yet.

You are wanting sex due to "horny".

You already gave a hint to being a potential cheater by saying "do it with someone" even though you have a boyfriend.

I do agree.

Grow up.

Answer 2

Why stop masturbating? There's no physical harm in it, even if you do break your hymen. Of course, to avoid that, you should concentrate more on clitoral stimulation than actual penetration. If you really care for your boyfriend and want him to be "your first time," then you should continue what you're doing and wait 'til you're together again. If you're interested in other guys, maybe you're not ready for a serious relationship, long distance or otherwise, which probably means you're not ready for sex and should keep masturbating, anyway.

Answer 3

It is natural to feel horny from time to time, especially in our sex drenched society. As a 16yo girl I certainly understand what you mean. But virginity is something special. I am a virgin and have every intention of staying that way until my wedding night. Be proud of being a virgin and do the same.
Easier said than done, I know, but it will be worth it once you marry and have the best sex with your husband.
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Answer 4

Sex is hardwired into everyone's brain.If it wasn't for the feelings your feeling right now, people would not reproduce. You might as well ask us how to stop breathing because you feel like you need to breathe.
Go have sex with someone who doesn't want a relationship. There are plenty of guys who will fill this role, or get a vibrator but it will never compare to the real thing.

Answer 5

I wouldn't worry about hymin,she will be there waiting for that important person in your life. I know this sounds puritanical but pray about it ask God to remove the compulsion to masturbate from your body, have faith in God, and meditate. If you do this the answer will come. Ask God how you can better serve Him then relax and take it easy. Write down what God reveals to you in meditation. Then get into action, share what happened in meditation with another woman that is a confirmed heterosexual ,about your experience.
Turn your thoughts to someone else who is in despair or depressed and think about how you can bless them today mabey call to let them know you are thinking and praying for them. And walla your problem will vanish into mid air.If it doesn't work the first time try again later
Most of us are touch deprived in our culture. Find a professional massuse messure.
or. go ahead and Give yourself a rub down. light a candle put on some sexy music and your mans fav. scen trub lotion on yourb reasts paying specialatt ention to yourni pples tu m my thi gh s and th ebehind your kn ee s .takey our time. K ee pin g up the t ensio n bring yo ur self up to but not quite to h ave ing an o r gas im and then relax ,don't let your self cm, pluto you r focus on your hairs, face n=and shoulders.Then beg in ag ain and re peat this as ma ny times as you can three or more times unt ill you ca n't waiit any mor e and let yourself go hard. Wav es of le asure will surge t hou gh out your bo dy. It will be the mostex plosiv e or g as im yo u've ev er h ad .. You can play a game Try to drag it out a little longer each time ,how many times longer Its up to you. it takes what it takes to get you there. Mostly have fun be grateful for what is working in your life, and if irs working don't fix it.

Answer 6

Yes it could break, no it is no danger to your health.

If you're serious about the boyfriend - just keep doing what you're doing, and wait for him. If you're not, find a safe LOCAL relationship (assuming you're old enough to be doing those kids of things of course).

And nothing will ever make that desire go away for good except death.

Answer 7

Your body is changing, you are getting older, and therefore your hormones feel like they want to explode!!especially before and after period hey?! but personally i don't think it is worth to give up something special like your virginity!!remember if you loose it, it is gone!!and you will regret loosing it.. keep it for someone special ONE DAY but for now, focus on other things. and if you do feel horny masturbate!!you will see just as it came it will pass as well!!

Answer 8

Take a cold shower and be proud you are still a virgin. You are a rare species on earth

Answer 9

If you r happy masterbating then its Ok and if you really want to have sex and keep in sec\ret then contact me for being safe and happy at : [e-mail]

Answer 10

well just wait for your boyfriend its the best just to wait for the one you love but if you really need it find someone but you have to consider about getting pregnant or diseases out there