why do we see unfaithful partners?what is that their partners lack that they go for others.... why dont people sit with their partners and discuss how to improve a relationship instead of running away from it ?
Im not married but was just curious to know
2006-07-27 20:26:35 · 7 answers · asked by hs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Day in and day out you see others that will attract you but it is up to the person to make the decision of who and what they want in there life. If they choose to decieve then they may have lost something that could have been the best thing in there life. If they choose to be faithful then they may be just that happy that they couldn't hurt someone that has always been there for them. KNowing what you have in life makes all the difference. And choosing what you want can be the greatest thing you can ever have. If you love someone don't cheat and if it's about lust then it's best you let it go before anything starts. KARMA
2006-07-27 20:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by nympho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make compromises as they enter relationships. They decide to be with a person now, rather than to be alone. Then when someone comes along that is closer to their idea of what they want, the chase after it. Often people have no interest in trying to make a relationship work, since we have all been raised on the fairy tale that there is someone, a soul mate, that is perfect for us. A person with whom we will never have to work at a relationship, will never fight or disagree with and will live happily ever after with. If only those dreams were real, the world would be a happier place.
2006-07-27 20:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by youknowkennio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Books and movies implant wrong ideas about romance and life in younger generation.
2)Value system and Morality norms are changing day by day
3)Younger generations have less time for a realtionship to mature, they need results faster
4) Many people (males/Females) are not capable of thinking and understanding realities about Romance/sex
5) Peoples (males/females) mindsets can change over time.
6)When you are in a relationship for a long you undestand even smaller details/habits of other person,which over a period can be irritating/can lead to problems
7) Some peole are curious in nature about everything
8) More people are avilable who are trying infidelity
2006-07-27 20:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by kulkarnidg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very good question.I think the first reason is because they got bored. When you already have something, you don't need to fight or to make efforts for that...so here comes the platitude... and then the coldness and the next step the reciprocal accusations..and that's it.. the final step: trying to find another partner and after you found him, divorcing.
2006-07-27 20:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Gersin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how about this then when you get married you can ask this question. You're just like people without kids and the first fu(kin thing you wanna do is give advice on how to raise them.
2006-07-27 20:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because of this stupid romanticism that books and movies still imply today. People believe if they don't fit perfectly, they must separate and get another mate. Relationships must be worked on, I agree.
2006-07-27 20:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? people many times dont run away from their relationship because there is something wrong with it. they run away because they have lost their independence. It's really hard to be with someone,manage to be independent, and retain your characteristics as a human.
2006-07-27 20:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by foxtox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋