Is your weight depressing you lady's?

Question

Well don't let it, I fell in love seven years ago to my wife and she is bulky built. If someone doesn't love you because of your weight their not worth having. Got for it lady's, their plenty of us lads looking for a person like you to cuddle.

Answer 1

That is a really nice posting and reading it this morning has made the morning awesome.
I am a normal sized woman with what I have always called my Sophie Loren figure,as my mother is Spanish and has what i have known as the Mediterranean look.

Thank you for posting a truly Brilliant post!

Answer 2

Your words are a boost. My weight gain over the last few years is also down to love, but more recently, down to quitting smoking. I do worry about my weight and I am on a slow and steady diet, but my husband loves me unconditionally so I don't feel pressured into making myself into a stick thin model type.

Answer 3

I'd not mind dropping a couple or five kg, but the weight is _not_ upsetting me. The issue with me is not the weight I am, but how I feel, as long as I am filled with energy, etc., my weight is OK. Whoever minds should... mind his own business :))

You are right, a person should be loved for who they are not for how they look. Looks change, but the person inside stays materially the same. And love is not love that alters when it alteration finds...

Answer 4

Thank you, that's cheered me up for the day, my husband loves me as I am, but I'd still like to lose a bit although I don't want to be a stick insect.

Nice to know people like you are out there, and not just sticks looking down their noses at us curvy ladies.

Answer 5

I feel comfortable and happy with my weight.

I think its really sweet what you siad about your wife but although it is lovely to be loved by somebody and appreciated regardless of size, it is still important to remember the implications for the woman. Although women still look good curvy and its perfectly natural and normal it can still be uncomfortable for the woman and its important to consider the health implications. You should also want your wife to be happy and healthy. Excess weight is bad for health, simple as that.

Answer 6

You sound like a sweet guy.

My weight IS depressing me even though my husband is always telling me I'm beautiful. But you know what? I have to be happy with myself and I KNOW I'm too fat. I can feel it in my daily life and I want to be healthy.

So I've started another diet.

Answer 7

i think thats a really nice thing to say, thankyou!
i'm not exactly skinny but i'm not huge either, my hubby married me when i looked like this, but after 3 years i feel like i wanna feel/look better. i started going to the gym and eatin sensibly, don't get me wrong tho, i don't wanna loose my curves, i just wanna be healthy. Like you say, not all men want skin and bones, have confidence in who you are and be a good person, take care of yourself and be happy :-)

Thankyou for the nice question/post.
xx

Answer 8

I'm not at all comfortable with my weight but my fiancee tells me he loves me every day so i'm happy with that.

Thanks for the encouraging words thats all we need to hear every now and again! Your Mrs is a lucky woman.

Answer 9

Hi Lucky, I have a great husband like you who loves me the way I am, I've been overweight, underweight and now I'm just right, but he never loved me any less. Thanks for the confidence boost, I think I need to stop worrying so much!

Answer 10

there is a lot of pressure to look a certain way. and its harsh. i just had a baby, 3 months ago and im certainly not as slim as a used to be. its hard to get back into it. i can get you down, but if ur man really loves u, ur size shouldnt matter much.