2006-07-27 19:58:15 · 13 answers · asked by yush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why in the world would you feel guilty about dreams??? These are things you have no control over, and ...believe it or not, EVERY character in your dreams is YOU, not someone else, for dreams are created by you with your personality, your wants, desires, etc...so you are dreaming about different facets of your own self, not someone else. Relax, you are NOT being unfaithful. Enjoy the fantasy while it lasts...it is harmless, and hell, I suspect your husband does his share of dreaming. No one can control what they dream. good luck
2006-07-27 20:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
Hi there...
To me personally its ok ... as long as you know where to end the dreams. Somethimes dream came when we want something but it is almost impossible to get, there are times too when we dream of the impossible, an ideal partner, an ideal relationship, an ideal of everything. So, rather than not getting anything, you can get something out of the sweet dreams which you must alyaws that is only a dream...
2006-07-28 03:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mazlan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams communicate to us in code; like the female (you) and the male (not-husband) are joined. This joining is symbolic of fertility. Mother Earth and all that stuff. Feminine power!
Don't feel bad, feel good. We're talking life giving, life growing, and life germination. Tell your husband to hold on!!
2006-07-28 06:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have those dreams a lot but when I'm awake i treat my spouse like the most important, lovable person i know. i do not attach any guilt trips or significance to 'dream' adventures. it's what we both do in conscious reality that matters to us. sometimes we tell each other about our dream adventures and have a great laugh over it since the dream has no impact on our real life love and commitments.
2006-07-28 03:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. DO you asked yourself why you're doing that? Is it maybe bacause you're not happy with your husband anymore? Because if you still in love with him, you won't be dreaming of having another affair. oh girl..try to ask yourself.
2006-07-28 03:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by jewel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams are just segmented memories of things seen thoughout the day or fantasties, it's normal to have erotic dreams that may or may not include hubby, share them if you feel comfortable with him, or keep them to yourself, use as ideas for a romantic evening with him,they become bad when you act them out with someone else or obsess on them and loose tract of whats real and inportant. you can always masturbate with them??
2006-07-28 03:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal, yes. Just so long as you don't do anything, you shouldn't feel guilty. If you continue to feel guilty, you should actually talk to your husband about it. Explain that you would never do something like that and it's really been bothering you. He should understand if he cares about you.
2006-07-28 03:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by sirius_the_grim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dream doest come when you know what your going to dream, so it is normal
2006-07-28 03:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kautukwi Kamukamu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband to get busy in the bedroom,the dreams a hint he not trying hard enough to please you,before your doing it for real with a local builder while hubby at work
2006-07-28 03:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouln't be human if you didn't dream ot think about other people, as long as you stay fateful your good.
2006-07-28 03:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋