2006-07-27 19:52:19 · 7 answers · asked by BabyWontBack 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
get a man
2006-07-27 20:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by dustyrose4656 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don't stint on your foreplay first. (You knew I would get that in!)
To locate the G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it upward toward yourself in a "come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this -- sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure. If you don't get a reaction, here's what you do If you don't get a reaction, don't be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within, not on the outside of, the vaginal wall.
Sometimes it helps to use your other hand on the outside of the mons pubis (the hairy area above the pubic bone) to lightly massage the skin in the area where your crooked finger is touching, to intensify the effect. And since not all women are G-spot sensitive, don't get discouraged if you can't get a special reaction.
While some women are capable of multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot, others don't get much of a feeling and some even feel discomfort from G-spot stimulation.
But no worries -- every woman will appreciate the attention and the effort! And while searching, you might discover other areas in her vagina that she responds to even more enthusiastically.
tapping into love
The best way to manually stimulate the G-spot is with a firm "tapping" motion with your crooked finger. Some guys find it easier to stimulate the G-spot with various toys. Any dildo can be used for this, but the ones that are best suited for G-spot stimulation are hard and curved. Many are made specifically for G-spot stimulation, as their length, width and curve are specifically designed to take the "guesswork" out of G-spot stimulation.
Even women who do not enjoy manual stimulation of the G-spot may enjoy penile stimulation of the spot during intercourse. So, if your penis has a natural upward bend, you've got it made! Other men have to find positions that maximize penile contact with the front wall of the vagina. The "woman on top" positions and posterior (doggy style) positions are best for achieving that contact.
The only way to get G-spot stimulation in the missionary position is to prop her hips up with pillows (or a special wedge known as "The Liberator"). Women can also intensify their ability to have G-spot orgasms by learning to contract their pelvic muscles, known as kegel exercises.
sex gets better with age
There is some evidence that the intensity of a woman's G-spot orgasm is mediated by the hormone estrogen. Most young women under 30 find clitoral orgasms to be more powerful, because, due to their relatively high estrogen levels, their vaginal lining becomes too thick to allow direct stimulation of their G-spot nerves.
As the estrogen level begins to decline in women during their 30s, the vaginal lining becomes thinner and the G-spot becomes more accessible. That's why most women feel that they begin to peak sexually in their early to mid-30s.
Dr. Victoria Zdrok earned her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from Drexel University, a J.D. from Villanova Law School and her certificate in sex therapy from New Jersey School of Medicine. She is the author of Anatomy of Pleasure, and is the monthly sex advice columnist for Penthouse Magazine (for whom she was 2004 Pet of the Year). You can ask her questions three times a week on her radio talk show at ElectricEyeRadio.com, or visit her at her website, SexySexpert.com.
2006-07-28 03:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by nay nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't specific...you can't orgasm internally, that may take some practice, you have to find the G spot, externally, via clitoris, just use a very good lubricant, relax, and don't stress about it during manipulation.
2006-07-28 03:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by lilyvix2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your partner need to explore you and what turns you on, it just take practise to find the right spot. Read up on the subject. I got a lot of information from the Sunday NIght Sex Show, try calling in to there and asking Sue - she'll know.
2006-07-28 02:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by peach_campbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a frieken man why do u think that they have a peinus!!!!!! its gross enough that ur not straight, much less that u posted a Q like this!!!
2006-07-28 04:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by loves2run:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you use your finger or sompthing safe like a dildo to hit your G spot. you keep massaging this till you ***.
2006-07-28 02:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you are totally lesbian. you may be hetero sexual. why don't try to have sex with men?
2006-07-28 02:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋