My man gets paid every Friday and I get paid every other Friday but for some reasons I pay everything,rent bills car payments then when I ask him for money he says he already spent it what is he really doing with his money
2006-07-27 19:51:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Personal Finance
It is high time you made some changes in this relationship.
Insist on 50/50 on the bills ... or go find someone else ... this guy is using you!!
2006-07-27 19:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to say that he is doing this. But my man did that when we first hooked up and then i caught him playing the slots ... come to find out he was gambling all of his check and i paid the bills. I gave him a choice he can sleep with me or he can sleep with the slot machines... I would just ask him what he is doing. it just so happened that we live in a small town and he was caught red handed..
It worked he hasn't gambled since.... and he helps with the bills or he is out.. simple as that. it takes two incomes and it isnt right for you to have all the responsibility.. that was my husband before we married.. He knew from that experience that i wouldn't put up with that sh**. and now his check is direct deposited into OUR account and WE both know what money is going where and why.
2006-07-28 02:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a couple of ideas first is he's saving it for a gift for you. 2. drugs 3. alcohol. 4. gambling. 5. another woman. I hope its number one. Probaably time for a serious sit down discussion with him unless you are afraid of the truth, it may seem trivial but it may end up biting you in the rearend if you don't. Good luck reaper out......
2006-07-28 03:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the logical answer is he has a dumb woman to support him so why not take advantage of her . I know when I hook up with a lady and she pays I hang with her and deposit all my money in a bank account in my name only and then when she gets fed up I just mosey along and find another dumb woman who is willing to support me . God knows there is plenty of women out there who will fall for a good sob story and help out .
2006-07-29 14:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spending it on himself, and possibly somebody else.
You should have a family account and put half of your money, after you put some in savings, in there.
That is the account you should pay bills from. It's not fair for you to pay for everything
2006-07-28 02:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what he's doing with his money,
worry about WHY you don't know what he's doing.
worry about why you find it necessary to adopt this child.
a little boy doesn't become a man because he turns some magical age
a little boy doesn't become a man because because he's post-pubescent
a little boy doesn't become a man because you call him your man.
a little boy becomes a man when he stands up and decides to be an adult.
2006-07-28 04:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by yeeooow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you quit supporting his sorry butt. I stopped paying when that started happening to me. Made a big difference too. :)
2006-07-28 02:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buying drugs
2006-07-28 02:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by dedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are getting screwed
2006-07-28 05:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beer gurl u know dat!!!
2006-07-28 02:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by raiderchic83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋