My boyfriend wants to get married to me. I love him and i want to marry him too. But he doesnt believe me. How do i make him understand that he is the only one in my life that i love.
2006-07-27 19:50:59 · 21 answers · asked by SMILEY 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Dont let him rush you! The bible says that LOVE is PATIENT and KIND 1Corinthians13 . If he truly loves you he will allow you to decide without giving you any grief about it! And he sounds like he wants you to get pregnant like he is marking his territory, and if he succeeds that is exactly what he is doing. So you had better be certain you want this man in your life forever, cuz once your preggo other potentially better men will go to the next girl who's not stuck at home on welfare with a loser ex stalking her. I have found that 99% of the time the one who is jealous is the one who is cheating!
2006-07-27 19:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by JodiBaby 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oy... At some point, you have to just be okay with being vulnerable and take that leap of faith. If you go through life not doing things you want or need to do for fear of failure, yeah, you may never fail, but you won't gain anything either. You can take your fears and try to morph them into a determination to make YOUR marriage work. Marriage IS work. It IS hard. It's also worth it, and it's certainly not a guarantee that you'll get divorced. There's a movie I like that's a fantasy, where a man is half-wolf, and he's giving a girl advice when she says she won't marry because she doesn't want to get hurt. "Well... you MIGHT not get hurt... but huff, puff, you won't get loved either."
2016-03-27 03:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Debra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is in the teen section, to you're teenage? Marriage is not something your boyfriend should be thinking seriously of right now. I'm inclined to agree with the first answerer here. Be careful. Tell him that you're too young to get married, so why not just enjoy being together and seeing what the future holds. he sounds very needy.
2006-07-27 19:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you? Me and my now husband, got together when we were 13. We are now 24 and married. I never thought I was going to marry him until college when it was time to think about my future. If he really loves you, he would listen to anything and everything you have to say. Its also not a good idea if you just met, and wanting to marry. Just tell him to believe you and trust you. Good luck!
2006-07-27 19:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Clarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds corny but my ex (sad I know..she dumped me) made me take her to the grocery store and then let her go to my room while I stayed outside. When she let me come in I was surprised with rose peddles and chocolates all over the floor. The lights were turned off and music was playing. She gave me a killer message and "made whoopy". After that I was 100 % hers and believed otherwise.
2006-07-27 19:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the most important thing in a relationship is trust n if he doesnt believes in u then dont rush into any relation with such a guy coz without trust nothing is gonna work out ..
jst remember that trust is as important as love.n its vry important in a long term relationship.
2006-07-27 20:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didnt believed that you love him, why he ask you to get married to him? Just say yes, that make him happy.
2006-07-27 19:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by happylittletoes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,but this does not make any sense to me at all; he loves you and you love him,and you 2 know - I think - that you want each other,so ....what is the problem? Something here you are not telling us dear....right ?
2006-07-27 20:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Fadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into something that is supposed to be a lifelong commitment. That is what marriage is--a commitment full of trust. Are you both ready? Dosen't sound like he really is.
2006-07-27 20:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ay G all u gotta do i say i lvoe you and want to marry you...***** dats all yall so scared to get married ***** jus say YEA
2006-07-27 19:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋