well my boyfriend gives me oral sex alot in i dont give it back to him i think thats to gross is that being selfish? i dont kno why i cnt do it i just cant its too dam nasty for me but i give him my sex in hes the only boi i ever did it with do i surpose to give it back????????????
2006-07-27 19:16:34 · 19 answers · asked by naenae 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
With my most recent girlfriend (now my ex-girlfriend), I'd give her oral sex almost every night before we went to bed...it helped her sleep. I never asked for anything in return, and she thought that was SO cool! She actually liked giving me oral sex...she just thought that it was so wonderful that I could give it to her and not automatically expect it in return.
Don't be surprised if he asks you to do the same for him eventually. It's not gross at all. Just ask him to make sure he's completely clean down there if you're worried about hygene.
2006-07-27 19:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by wonderbong2002 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to your story..I had the same issue with my b/f who is now my ex. I would recieve but never give I told him straight out No I don't do that. He was cool with it and just said ok tha'st fine..can I still do it to you? . Just talk to him about it tell him and no you don't have to do it..nobody's forcing you..you don't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. It's not being selfish it's a personal choice don't feel guilty about it. If those are your standards stick to them you don't have to be or do something you know you would never do!!!
2006-07-28 02:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ash D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i cant say ur selfish its ur choice that u do so or not its ur life. if any body say that i strongly condemn that. becouse sex is a sacred action not just a act. in sex every action have agreement of both not only male or female. so ok dear u r not selfish//
2006-07-28 02:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by jacks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Definitly. If you recieve it you should give it, that should be a rule, I bet anything he has a massive b-o-n-e-r while eating you out or fingering you, the very least you could do is relieve him either by giving a BJ or a Handjob... Are you afraid to do that?
2006-07-28 05:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by Petey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never be pressured into doing anything you dont want to do, maybe he enjoys going down on you, that doesnt mean that you enjoy going down on him. And if hes harpen on you about it, tell him how you feel, if that doesnt work, then girl you need to get rid of him, a good guy should never pressure you into anything!
2006-07-28 02:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by thehabit87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never do anything you are uncomfortable with. If he asks try it once, maybe you will like it after all. If not never do it again - if he pressures you tell him no. If he says I give it to you, you have to give it to me - then simply tell him not to give it to you anymore. If he's too demanding and pressures you a lot tell him to get lost and you never want to see him again.
2006-07-28 02:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by peach_campbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not being selfish you are just being true...yes its kinda gross..i dont like to give it either at first but no harm in trying at least for once...you know if you get him so satisfied its whats gonna make the spark really turn into fire...youll be able to enjoy it if you are also concerned with his satisfaction but nevertheless if you dont really like it no reason to put yourself in agony that you are being selfish ok....its nice to communicate...you should really know if he would like you to do it... but at least you should try...
2006-07-28 02:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by ashlee-fia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell ya thats selfish if i gave oral and didnt get it in return i would never give it again until i got it first
2006-07-28 13:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by t-mite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's fine.. do what feels right.
When you're up to it, you can experiment with more, bit by bit.
Just take it slowly as it comes. (excuse the pun)
Most guys will be happy just to be down there in that position anyway.
2006-07-28 02:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....i think it all do with heart and mind......
listen to u'r heart it tells u r selfish......and mind... all is fun no worry..
if u mean sex and that is the only thing that you care about u'r bf....then listen to mind.....
if u mean love making.....then rules r different......it is not want u get......but what u can give......and u would not think twice to do anything to make u'r partner happy, if you love him.......
so first decide what he means to u.....and there u have the answer.....
2006-07-28 08:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by mac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋