how do u approach a femme in public?? have u ever misjudged a girl and ended up bein cuss out cuz she aint gay? wat r u attracted to in a girl??(i know its different for each person, jus wonderin)
2006-07-27 19:15:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i am strait but i have been aproached i have never cussed somebody out for it it's not there fault i dont wear a sign that says im strait also i only have lesbian friends people think i am gay because of that it's just ignorance but i find it the same asking a guy out as it is for my friends to ask a girl out just suck it up take a chance and go for it
2006-07-27 19:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, that is quite the question. I am a femme, so I know how difficult it can be to approach another especially in a mixed crowd or club. When I chat up a chick I slip in something about my EX-GIRLFRIEND and see what the reaction is. But before I approach I make long, sultry eye contact. If she holds her own with you then I say that is a green light. Personally, I would not be offended at all if someone outright asked me if I date women. Sometimes the direct approach is the best if the conversation and body language still leaves you clueless.
Apologies for the little help I can provide. If you figure it out, let me know, OK?!
2006-07-28 03:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a 5 min. conversation 95% of the time I can tell one way or the other with women. The one time I misjudged I ended up getting preached at for being evil *snicker* it was great....
I am not stud, nor femme, kinda in between I guess. But my attraction is for femmes... long gorgeous hair... hmmm... girls that like to shop, and just hang out.
2006-07-28 06:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by gabbyx19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get with girls unless I know them pretty well and I'm friends with them. So if there's someone I want to get to know, I'll just go up to them and ask them if they want to hang out sometime. I've never misjudged a girl, but I was hanging out with some of my male friends once and a girl thought I was a guy and started flirting with me. When she found out I was female she got freaked out, ha. Never heard from her again. As for what I like in a girl, just someone I can chill with. Someone low-maintenance who doesn't mind just grabbing some pizza and watching a movie. Has to be funny, intelligent, and respectful. As for looks, I don't really care, but I don't like girls that are really thin. Love exotic eye colors, black wavy hair I can play with when I'm bored. Smile's important too. And breasts and butt don't matter to me at all.
2006-07-28 05:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Josh....I'm going on a limb here: but I think Pookie is looking to hear from female "studs" with Snap-On attachments.
2006-07-28 02:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "Hi dudess." She might be gay, and then won't answer you but if she's attracted, she will say, "Hi dude." Personally I don't speak to those who Im not attracted to whether or not they are gay and how can you tell when you first see them, anyhow?
2006-07-28 02:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by misty_blue2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you called?
2006-07-28 02:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by josh v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say "get outta my way biatch!"
2006-07-28 02:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋