My wife just got home from work at the construction yard 3 hours late because she went BOWLING with her co-workers and I made this nice dinner and put candles out and flowers. All she did was come in, burp real loud and went straight to the kitchen and opened a beer. And then all she wanted to do was have sex. WTF is wrong with her? She is never romantic with me, help.
2006-07-27 19:01:47 · 23 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she was just drunk, be glad your wife still likes to have sex w/ you!
2006-07-27 19:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by wmichael.harvey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch!
Has she always been the more abrasive person in the relationship? Or is this just a one-time occurence? You could have done something to piss her off, which is why she went bowling and then ignored your gestures upon her arrival at home.
Your wife needs some lessons in sensitivity, as would anyone with that attitude.
Good luck to you.
2006-07-27 19:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by ear help! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry she treated you that way.You are an awesome person,and desrve much,much more.
I am not God so I will not tell you what to do. Only you can make a desicion,do what is in your heart.You may want it to work but it sounds like it ended along long time ago.
You only have one life,live it full of happiness.
Good luck my friend and God Bless..
2006-07-27 19:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Annette P82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a tough situation because you want her to realize that you love her for who she is but also there needs to be passion in the relationship.
It is important at all times to try to keep sparks going in a relationship. Koodos for trying to be romantic for her. You are definitely trying to please her and make her happy.
Talk to her when you are not in the middle of a situation where she is doing something like that when both of you are not defensive. Let her know what you like, also make her feel like you are trying to give her what she wants.
2006-07-27 19:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by soulplane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being romantic with the bowling team she was just out of sorts. When I left her she was romantic as hell. That's why she's so horny. you sound like a puppy doggy out of luck.
2006-07-27 19:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! This is quite a conundrum you have.....usually this is the woman's biggest complaint. Have you tried talking to her about the lack of intimacy she is showing you? Honestly, I'd have to suggest some couples counseling.....maybe try role reversal?
2006-07-27 19:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by happydancergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some relationship books and learn HOW to have a good relationship with anyone! you just need a few easy to learn skills and some knowledge about asking for what you want and giving what the other wants.
2006-07-27 21:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine the scene clearly, you at the table with a candle burnt down and you crying.....You poor poor thing
It can make you feel do unappreciated
2006-07-27 19:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, maybe that's just part of her attitude, not being romantic and all. There are people who aren't really romantic. Or maybe she's just tired from her day's activities.
2006-07-27 19:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an old Roseanne episode!
2006-07-27 19:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh come on nobody in thier right mind would put up with **** like that if your telling the truth! what the hell kind of white trash house you live in? Sounds like you made this **** up!
2006-07-27 19:04:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋