Hey well I don't know how to explain it. It just happened. It was a one time thing. I know it was wrong. I just don't know how this is gonna affect thing between us. I really don't want to lose him. We've been talking about getting married. I think he's gonna propose to me soon. I just don't know what to do. It's all so confusing to me.
2006-07-27 19:01:37 · 31 answers · asked by Sexy Cindy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe I should just tell him that I slept with another man, and am sorry for being unfaithful. It really shouldn't be important that it was his father.
2006-07-27 19:40:39 · update #1
Meet him and his dad at a place u feel comfortable and clear the air, you dont want to let him pop the question and then u feel guilty and his dad will have something over you.He that been his dad might corner you one day and demand sex from you again and if u refused then he might offer to tell his son and where will that put you.Next time dont keep it all in the family.
2006-07-27 19:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by mrlex42 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, IDK...what on earth were you thinking! You can either close your eyes and act like it never happened and if you believe it enough you just might be able to keep the lie going well into your marriage until your father in law gets drunk at the wedding and tells everyone during the toast " I know for a FACT, that this shouldn't have been a WHITE WEDDING...hiccup...sorry son! ...hiccup."
or you can rack it up to ... honesty is the best policy and cross your fingers and toes and anything else you can possible get your hands on and lay it out there for him to make the final decision of whether he can live with a Father Focker. I'm betting he's gotta be one stupid MoFo if he doesn't dump ur a$$!
Hey maybe you can see if he's a little freaky and ask if he would ever consider a 3 some and if he's into it somehow get his dad involved and then when you do the dad ....Wahla! Ha, now you did his dad and he knows about it problem solved!
Sorry for seeming rude, I really was just being honest but trying to have fun doing so. I know that things like this happen....I wish you all the best Good Luck!
2006-07-28 02:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by reighngstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK it wrong, yes but don't beat up yourself over it just turn over a new page n start a fresh...Get a trusting person that u can share it with and get it off ur chest but, if after all u still feel like telling him well go ahead. But be prepare to lose him as well as he might stay, if he truely love u...he will give u a chance to have a happy life together.
2006-07-28 02:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by symarcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should tell him yet till he proposes and until you outgrow your confusion about what you want. I know it sound harsh but entering marriage by people who are unsure of themselves have a small chance of lasting long. So wait till he proposes and hopefully by then you would know your priorities and values (i.e. being honest to him even at the risk of loosing him). Or keep a dark secret and locked somewhere and throw away the key, and hope that it doesn't bother your conscience or he finds out about it.
2006-07-28 02:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jun G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as it is said whats in the dark always comes to the light.......if you don;t tell him one if you have a conscience its gonna eat you up and two you will forever be uncomfortable around his dad so that will make your b/f curious of why and if all of that doesn't happen karma will get you...it will and you will so regret it and your b/f will hate you then and never forgive you and make you feel so lousy and you will become depressed and well f_uck it just go tell why be so afraid you new what would happen you made the mistake which was a disgusting one and well thats all the answer i have.....lying always comes back to haunt you....boo
2006-07-28 04:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by poetic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better tell him before he proposes, because if he finds out later, or worse after your married, all hell is gonna break loose, best to get it over sooner rather than later.
2006-07-28 02:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by dukefritz79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his father acts like it didn't happen and is taking no steps to make it happen again, you shouldn't ever talk about it, but always, ALWAYS avoid the father. If he takes an effort to do it again, stay away from all of them, you'll be in deep ****.
2006-07-28 02:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Odin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cindy - Just tell him, since you're going to lose him. Say, "Dude, I did your dad. Now I see why sleeping with you sucks so bad." I mean since your relationship is basically over, why not have a bit of fun with it. Yes, that sounds cruel, immature and just downright f'ed up, but so was sleeping with his dad.
2006-07-28 02:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok don't let him pop the q b4 you tell him.you have to tell him cuz wen you were doin it u weren't thinking about his feelings and pray so he can 4give you or take you back cuz thats realy bad.don't to him about it and just tell him it was a mistake and that you love him and you will neva do some like that aggain/goodluck honey
2006-07-28 02:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him in the eye and say"Honey I love you,but I'm selfish and I think I should be able to DO anyone even your father b/c I have such a low opinion of myself and YOU that I'll sleep with someone just to make me feel better about myself,except I feel worse about myself,so I'll sleep with someone else just to make me feel better about myself,except I feel worse about myself ,so I'll sleep with.............
2006-07-28 02:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by hippiegirl672003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋