how do you know whether your relationship is in a bad phase or if you should break up?

Question

i live with my fiance, we've been together 5 and a half years and all we seem to do is fight. we live and work together (he's my boss). any advice please.

Answer 1

Oh my, sounds like you guys need some room to breath... I don't know of anyone who has been able to live and work together and have a healthy relationship........ I would suggest that if at all possible you try to find a different job.........to answer your question if it's a bad phase or not .... the easiest way to find that answer is are you in love with him.... it's different than loving him... you need to ask yourself that question and be honest with yourself.......... good luck and listen to your heart

Answer 2

Hi..
here is what you can do:
On a piece of paper, make two columns (or you can do this on a WP in Table format)...

Entitle the left column "Positives" ..and the right column "Negatives"....

In the left column write down all the Positive things about the person you love.... The list may be short.. especially if he hasn't been treating you well, lately... Be as honest with yourself as possible...

Next, write down all the "Negative" things about this person... List actual situations/events where you noticed ambivalent or non-caring behavior on their part... It may hurt to write these things down, but it's important you remember them...

Save this list... You may not remember all the negative/hurtful things that were done to you.. so you can always add to the list later...
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At the bottom of this list, write:
I may lose many things in life, but I will not lose my "SELF ESTEEM" or "SELF RESPECT"... No matter what...
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I wish you all the luck in the world, and make the right decision!
good luck:)

My regards!!

Answer 3

QUIT YOUR JOB STOP BEING UP EACH OTHERS REAR END SO MUCH GET A JOB WERE ONE OF YOU ARE AWAY FROM HOME ALOT THAT WILL MEND THINGS
MY GIRLFRIEND WORKS 35 MILES AWAY, SHE IS LEAVING FOR WORK AT 7 IN THE MORNING SHE WON'T RETURN TILL WED AT 5. WE NEVER FIGHT BEEN TOGETHER ABOUT SAME AMOUNT OF TIME AS YOU PS SHE IS OFF WORK 10 DAYS A MONTH

Answer 4

It might be because you work together and live together, you have too much time together!!! You need your space and you might not be getting it with that.
When you feel that the issues at hand cannot be resolved, that's when it's time to sever all ties.
Good luck

Answer 5

This is just a wild guess, but you're spending WAYYY too much time together. I would quit the job, find another job with another company...and try not to dip your nib in the company ink well again, ok?

Answer 6

i think of the main suitable element for each individual could be which you are able to go away.. she wont have any issues finding a guy who does love her.. and you will die on my own.. its a shame that somebody who sounds so suitable could waste her time with a gadget such as you... fyi, perchance you need to ask those questions below an alias extremely then your actual call with your photograph.. for her sake, unload the girl so she would be in a position of locate somebody deserving of her love

Answer 7

get some relationship books, etc. and learn what a good relationship is. then you'll be equipped to do something useful.

Answer 8

first thin is that yall need to brin work home bc i bet that wat happens yall can say yall dont but yall do and if that dont work u need to change job r dump him

Answer 9

if it feels wrong... get out while you can

Answer 10

iddkkk just doenst sound right.....