I am a female and married with 2 children, I recently found out a women I work with has a crush on me. She told me! I had no clue. What should I do?
2006-07-27 18:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by coleen h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From your reaction, you aren't interested too? If you're NOT interested, tell her that while you are flattered, you're sorry, but you're straight. Then be very careful to not cloud the issue, and be overly buddy-buddy with her. You can be CASUAL friends, just not too close, unless she is really cool about you telling her you are straight. I have actually had this happen to me, except that I had gone to high school with the girl, so when I said I was straight, she had expected it. Also, depending on your hubby, I wouldn't mention it to him, if you haven't done so already. He might want to try a 3-some. Good luck!!
2006-07-27 19:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by shannon e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the point is - how do you feel about it? Have you ever felt anything like that, not necessarily with her but with any other woman, before - especially before you found out she liked you.
I think it's just a point of giving yourself some time to figure out your emotions. Don't do anything until you have a clearer head, someone will end up getting hurt, you are going to get hurt too if you make the wrong decision.
I had a boyfriend and I found out that this chick liked me. To be fair though I had wondered if I was gay. Then I broke up with him and went out with her and that is how it has stayed.
2006-07-28 02:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not freak out. Just follow on what shannon_e said.
Good luck â
2006-07-28 02:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dante 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu have a family.. Man or woman it would still be cheating.. Leave it alone and do not act upon anything
2006-07-28 04:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go seek out another lessy, that you're not interested.
2006-07-28 01:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and very specific that you are not interested.
2006-07-28 02:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it , you may like it !
2006-07-28 02:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be flattered....and so should you be, enjoy the experience.
2006-07-28 02:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋