recently my bf of 5 years has been treating me so bad...so I started talking to other guys just to see if Id be able to move on...in the meantime he found out and now thinks ive been sleeping around..which I swear I havent...but anyway, the question I have is...has your bf ever pushed you to the point where you just had enough and you were still with him while you were seeing other guys? do you think what I did was really wrong? I tried talking to him but he only changes for a couple of days then its back to the same thing again...what would you suggest i do?
2006-07-27 18:41:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Pavi....I dont think theirs anything wrong with "talking" to someone...especially when my bf threatens me just for wanting to leave him...seriously...Ive never cheated on him...so thats where my morals are!
2006-07-27 22:54:06 · update #1
oh yea and one more thing....I dont need your pity....and besides, if you only knew half of the stuff he has put me through...you would change your mind about what you said...cause if I only loved myself..I would have left him a long time ago and found someone who doesnt hit me....thanks alot for nothing.....keep those opinions to youself next time
2006-07-27 22:56:08 · update #2
id say honestly get out of the relationship as quickly as you can once somone starts attempting to controll their partener it can lead to a much worse situation, if in his "love" he cant trust you to talk to other men then well hes not the one and if you are pushed to having these thoughts you should know in your heart that he is honestly not the one for you.
2006-07-27 19:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you have being seeing other guys? What are you complaing about? You are being deceitful and you are complaining! Where are your morals, girl? As far as I am concered you are not worth of any man's love. Why dont you grow up? I have no pity on you, only incompetent! You do not deserve true mens love. You seem to be in love with yourself!
2006-07-27 19:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Pavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is treating you badly enough that you have started seeing other people, then you need to just end it. Staying with him while seeing other people is unfair to all of you and someone will end up being very hurt.
2006-07-27 18:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you got to the point where you want to check what else is there....i guess that means that it's pretty much over and you have to move on + you should never let anyone treat you bad...i am sure you deserve someone better
2006-07-27 18:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new bf he doesnt like u anymore, or else he wouldnt b cheating on u
2006-07-27 18:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new bf
2006-07-27 18:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you obviously do not really love him any more, so make a clean break of him.
2006-07-27 18:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by fixer of all aka mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of that relationship girlie. if you dont like him anymore dont lead him on.
2006-07-27 18:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋