I am experiencing difficulties in our relationship right now. It started off with him looking at my cousin, and I felt this disrespectful, and told him ( said this many times before) He says that he has no necesssity to do that and that he did not.like a little girl I saw it and I got very hurt. Now we had an arguement yesterday, a real bad one. I said please care for me and don't do this. He says ok I did not do that but if you keep pressing I will really do it and show u.I said if he does that I will also do the same thing and show u how it feels, He hit me saying you are like a man challenging !. I said you have not shown me any love and I need you to care for me and show some love otherwise I will get in to some mess that I'd rather not be, and I dont want to do that. He says I am not giving him love and that he doesnot feel that I do. I am a person who doesnot feel bold enough to care if that is not given. Are we both having the same problem or what is this He says no woman too
2006-07-27 18:30:55 · 8 answers · asked by hekshi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like your problems are really deep. You suspect of cheating and, you tell him your going to cheat on him. What is that going to prove? It will only make you feel worse,if your heart is not in it. From the sound of it, I think that man is doing a lot more then you know about. You can't make him do anything. If you can't trust him you better make some decisions. Did you say he put his hands on you? IT IS NEVER OK FOR ANYONE TO PUT THEIR HAND ON YOU.
2006-07-27 18:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by candlelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is wrong 2 hit u. U r also in the wrong 2 accuse him of looking at others. Shows that u do not trust him enough to sustain the relationship. Leave him and learn fr this experience. A man who hits a woman is not worthy of yr love no matter how u provoke him.
2006-07-28 01:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both not having the same problem. you are not feeling love and you should be more concerned about yourself. Love is an amazing shared experience between two people who care about each other. the reason you have all these questions is because deep down you know you are not safe. move on, when you fall in love, the man, if he is a man will never hit you. please keep in mind you get the behavior you accept.
2006-07-28 01:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by elskar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER let a spouse hit you (unless you hit first). Call police. I have gone through this. Remember that people will always look at the opposte sex (or the same) when they find them attractrive. I have been doing it for thirteen years and have not cheated on my wife once, yet I look at women all the time. Tell him to try to keep it more discreet for your sake. My motto is, "if they are gonna cheat, they will no matter what".
2006-07-28 01:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by donnie0123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT stay with anyone who hits you!! And you have every right to ask that he not overdo looking at other women. I'd get rid of him, if I were you.
2006-07-28 01:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God...well, if he hit you, ditch him. Just pack and get out, or chuck him out if you can. If he hit you, there's no issue. If he hit you, he will hit you again - GET OUT!!!
2006-07-28 01:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He makes you feel like sh**. What do you need that for?
2006-07-28 01:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats way too long to read ..
2006-07-28 01:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋