Why is it differnt for girls having sex ?

Question

with A high amount of guys then a guy having a high amount of girls...When a girl has sex with like 10 guys she is considered a whore but if a guy has sex witth 10 girls he is considered a pimp or having alot of girls?

Answer 1

Of course there's the obvious reasons guys don't want women sleeping around like they might find guys they like better or look better, and than there's the big one, guy's with bigger penisis. 95% of guys are insecure. All to often the louder, more macho the man, the more insecure the boy.
Women aren't much better, the same 95% for women is they think their's is to much or to little, or to much that, not enough of this, and so on and so on...
There really isn't an easy way to explain this.
But I'll give it a shot. Here goes.
We are, all of us, both men and women alike, born, comforted, breast feed and raised, by a women.
And this during our most dependant, needy and impressionable ages.
It may be easily denied, but somewhere deep down, it's only natural for all us,both men and women alike to enjoy the comfort, security and, at one level or another, an attraction to women. Almost everyone enjoys a pair of attractive breasts.
And, there's where sex begins.
That and the roles each of us has come to play since man realized the power even one single women is capable of having.
For example,... Animals,
Almost all animals, when the female is in heat, the males become crazed. They will,as a group, follow her around in the hope of eventually getting their turn.
They will and often fight, occassionally to the death, just to mate with the female.
Now, it doesn't take much to imagine the depth and breadth of influence that using sexually, an ambitious female could weld.
Men realized it centuries ago.
Back when alpha males,(not unlike a pride of lions in the wild), possessing physical strength were the law of the jungle.
Their natural instincts were quick to realize that power in the female and to protect their excistance began repressing,and controling the roles women could play in society.
And,...
they also realized the more sexual the women, the more at risk they were to being driven off or even killed by other sexually driven, stronger, dominant males or even a small group's of men, desperate to have a female.
Nation's have been toppled to possess or keep a women.
So, the less attractive, weaker males, to protect themselves from harm, or even killed by an alpha male or from the pack, have dictatored to women what would be concidered accepted decorum.
And of course that women's having to wear less attractive garb and to repress any overt, sexual or attractive behavior that may drawing attention to themselves was a must.
How often do you suppose a women, when dressed,"hot", have been told to change?
Or,a women, when the center of the mens attention, have been called tramps,sluts or whores?
How often have you, yourself, guy or girl, done that exact thing?
And everyone knows that a sexually attractive women, who ignores normal decotum, usually, if not always, regardless of what's said about them,or the names called, are the most desired.
And, because of that, are severly criticized.
Almost always by the jealous, insecure, envious, self concious or simply less couragious of us.,
All to often judged by meek, usually considered invisible,those man and women alike, who are quick to hold these women to be without moral values and quickly point fingers branding them names like whore and sluts.
Unfortunately it is usually those very same people,noses held high, with little lives, who take the time to define what is considered what's moral and what's not.
Here's a raw fact that all guy's instinctly know, and,because it's so threatening, ignore.
Women, if not held to a moral standard, are physically able to have sex repeatedly, and, not only with any number of men and women but as often as they please. All men know this and are afraid of the "as they please", part.
Have doubts as to the substance of that statement?
Go to Amsterdam or the suburbs Of Las Vegas.
There are a number of reasons why guy's sleep around.
Simple desire is unquestionable. That it's acceptable,is another. To prove how their desireable and indepenent to other women.
At a lesser level there are probably as many reasons as there are males.
Granted, this was a long way to get here but,..
Hope this helped

Answer 2

It's called the double standard.
As family guy so predictably pointed out, men have believed in and enjoyed this system longer than women have.
We don’t like man whores either, they just like to tell each other we do. So far it appears men like the situation enough to keep it alive regardless of how much it makes them look like Neanderthals.
Some people just are not interested in being more than their daddy or some other blast from the past taught them to be.
*Women are learning though, and I predict soon, when the younger women are finished pretending to be their favorite spoiled whore, they will realize how stupid they are for perpetuating the myth that women are good for little else that sex and eye candy, and begin the revolution.

*Its fun to say things like that. I have a dream*

Answer 3

It is all society. Society decides what is acceptable and what is not.

As much as it sucks this is still a man's world where women are looked at as objects. Don't believe me? Look at how men go out hunting for women or how they are portrayed as prizes to win over for one night sexual episodes like in "American Pie" or "Wedding Crashers"

We are still trying to escape that age old expectation that women should save themselves and be pure for men. Think about how back in the old slave days men could have sex with whores and slaves all they wanted but if women had sex be for marriage they were useless outcasts in society.

Yuck. Don't worry though, times are changing

Answer 4

Forget that! That is such a ignorant way of thinking by secluded idiots!

Women & Men are all equal!

Labels are dumb and a backwards way of thinking!

Men are not in charge according to society! So many women use the poor male species for sex now days.

It works both ways!

Answer 5

If a girl screws a lot of guys, all the girls mark her as a slut, and all their boyfriends agree, because they don't want their girl friend pissed at them, but they will certainly seek out that slut when the g/f is not available one night. lol. Guys only care if a girl is a slut if they are thinking of marriage. They don't want to marry a girl that all the other guys already had. I know it's pathetic, but that is how us humans are.

Answer 6

Ok, Christina Aguilera, it's called a double standard. By the way, ever heard of a 'man whore'?

Answer 7

It makes no sense at all. Maybe it's because the girl gets loose and is then considered undesirable? But that's still not a good answer.

Answer 8

Who cares? So people think you are a whore? A least you are a whore who is having a lot of fun.

Answer 9

You haven't heard the term "dirty man whore"?

It's always been that way for years and years but these days the more women a guy sleeps with the more STD's he's been exposed to and when you sleep with him you are sleeping with every woman he's slept with AND every man she slept with before him......pretty nasty business...ain't nobody stickin' their wee wee in me without a zip lock baggie on it!

Answer 10

Good question. I've been called a whore and I've only ever dated/had sex with one guy. Ever.

*shrugs*