i generalize that all men are having the common attitude of "taking advantage" to us, women. i am oweiz encountering men who seem stripping my clothes by stare even though i don't wear sexy clothes. i am just a simple girl.i hate men! is there still an ideal man in this world?
2006-07-27 18:18:42 · 22 answers · asked by chibi 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Yes. We're called penguins.
2006-07-27 18:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by iggwad ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of the problem is our "modern" society. It teaches boys and men alike that looking at a girl like she is a piece of meat is alright, and is actually encouraged. TV, Movies, Music, all of it supports the "advantage" ideal. Although you probably can't change the entirity of "modern" society, you can still stay strong, and avoid the more sexually driven men. True, all men have some sex drive, it's just what it is, but I can garauntee there are men out there that are willing to wait, and really respect the ladies they date and/or marry. So, don't judge the entire male gender because your experience so far has been tough. Although I don't know what you have been through, I do know that giving up on men will cause you to have major regret when your older. Just keep searching, if you feel that someone is treating you like meat, confront them about it, and if don't seem to want to stop, leave them in the dust and continue. And, you can also have them just as friends you know, they don't have to be relationship-tied. I hope this helps you somewhat, I don't have all the answers, but I try! :D
2006-07-28 01:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Locomotive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sorry.
No ideal men left.
You will have to settle for an ***-hole.
But if you do, and you hate him, you wont be very happy... and neither will he...but perhaps you will stay there because you can punish him and that gets you off.
Seriously, id get off the high horse and start thinking some positive thoughts... you attract what you think about most often... if you are thinking about men who take advantage and dont show you any respect, you will attract that kind of man.
take responsibility for your thoughts...they have a real impact.
2006-07-28 01:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all of the ideal men are taken and the men you meet are the ones that were discarded....... and have never been breast fed, hence them becoming perverted souls.
Maybe you are just really attractive and you don't know about it.... and the men you encounter are just pervs.
Why don't you look at other men that walk past, they can't all be undressing you with their eyes?
If they glance thats fine right?
But if it's for prolonged amount of time then thats a problem.
Did something happen at a young age?!?!
Surely you have male friends? ask them.
2006-07-28 01:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by swma76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just slap a stereotype on every single guy. Work on recognizing that guys are all different. Though it seems from movies and that sort of thing that "all" guys are just after one thing that's not true. You have to have some trust. Just because one person or a few people have been after that you can't say that no guy has ever loved a girl for who she is.
2006-07-28 01:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Illiterate and sexy. Some men find that an irresistible combination. Of course, those type of men are jerks. Maybe if you found the right guy . . .?
2006-07-28 01:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u should think of what men do good and not just bad. there are lots of men. but hes not just gonna appear right in front of your face 1 day! so, u should look 4 someone who fits your standards. u know what they say,"One in a Million!"
2006-07-28 01:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by summer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your attitude is just as repugnant as a man who says all women are gold-digging b*tches. Remove yourself from the relationship/dating game, we don't need people like you to spoil the fun and good reputations of the rest of us.
2006-07-28 02:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out of that mindset, there are nice guys out there you just have to know where to look. There are many men who are stuck in the mindset that all women are "catty"etc. so they are afraid to talk to women thinking they will be put down.
2006-07-28 02:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by blankcanvas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no perfect man in the world, but you can change one.
well, some men aren't like others, some(not many at all) can be sympathetic and nice and true. most/all men are sex driven, nothing can be done about that.
2006-07-28 01:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋