im not catholic but when i do get married i want my husband to know im not a whore, if i have sex before marrige and i end up breaking up with my boyfriend then it'll all be for nothing.
2006-07-27 18:12:47 · 15 answers · asked by pandora r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's your decision babe. Don't be pressured either way. Losing you v isn't that big a deal and doesn't make you a whore, but you'll regret it if you do it before you're ready, or let someone push you into it.
2006-07-27 18:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet your husband wont be a virgin so you dont ahve to worry about him thinking you are a whore. Do u know how many people are having sex before marriage? As for you boyfriend wanting to have sex...girl, its all up to you. You hold the honey jar, so when u will be willing to let him dip in it, then its all on you
2006-07-27 18:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Carpe Diem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guy been dating for a long time and he is not pressure you to have sex, you have a good guy there. Because most guy will drop a girl in a month with no sex. Think about it. I am not telling you to have sex with him, it up to you. A few guys is not a whore(it the 21st cent.) enjoy yourself. Watch out for STD.
2006-07-27 18:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by u2thai562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need only to look at your question, to find your answer. The man is not asking, or pressuring you, to have sex. Knowing him, as you do, you assume he wants to. You are the same in this, you know. You are asking, only because you want to have sex with him, also.... afterall, he hasn't put any pressure on you, he is not stating he is dissatisfied with life as it is. You state that you are not catholic. That doesn't mean, then, that you do not have other reasons to feel guilt, if you sleep with him. You only need to ask, "what will I feel about myself, if I sleep with him"?....That is all you are really asking here. It doesn't sound like he is going to leave you, if things remain the same....... it is all up to you, baby. You will never really know him, or what life can be, or can not be, with him, until you sleep with him. You have to decide what sleeping with him means to you, and why. You have all the answers, inside you.....try to understand who you are, first, and then do exactly as you wish to do.........
2006-07-27 18:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by kurt h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question, Dear. :) It is best to wait, before you regret it later on. Besides, how sure are you that you & your current boyfriend will end up on the altar? I know you're a smart gal, think it a thousand times over. :)
2006-07-27 18:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Have you have been bf/gf for a while? Once you have sex the man normally isn't interested anymore. there is no more they can know about you. I would wait. You could get stds r something also.
2006-07-27 18:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT... because if you don't, someday, it may back-fire on you... he may not think of you or treat you respectfully (in the future), if you don't wait.
Don't give him something that he could use against you later (during an argument)... if the occasion occurs.
It would be like giving him ammunition to hit you with, if you don't wait.
2006-07-27 18:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!!
Cuz if u happen 2 marry him it will be special, but if u don't he might lose interest and dump u.
-listen 2 your instinc-
2006-07-27 18:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you made up your mind. Just wait.
2006-07-27 18:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by NYCchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait until u r married. its only right
2006-07-27 18:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by alycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋