i already had sex with boys, and i liked it, but i don't want to do it anymore, help me resolve this, i only want to like girls.
2006-07-27 17:58:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
test your theory to be sure.
2006-07-27 18:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax for a start - the tough part was the decision to have sex with boys, now you'll have to decide what you like the most. The only thing important is to be honest to the other part, which means it's not ethical to have a girlfriend who thinks you're straight when you secretely see boys as well.
2006-07-28 01:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lalaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that when you try two different things you will compare one to the other but that doesn't make you bisexual or gay. It was a mistake to try something like that because it's a sin. You feel that it was wrong because you are asking for help. most people tell you to go with the flow. but thats not the answer. Don't allow yourself to fall deeper. you know in your heart that it's not right so just don't do it anymore.
To find the power to change you need to look for God. He and only he will help you and also your willingness to change. I don't believe you think you are gay because you know deep in your heart that you were created with a body to pleasure a woman's body so enjoy it that way not the wrong way. look in the bible and you will find better answers. good luck!
2006-07-28 01:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by coolchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's theory's out there that say everyone is a little bi-sexual go with what you feel. If you're not into the boys right now, then invest some time in some girls in your life. Nobody said you had to pick a team.
2006-07-28 01:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by alltheanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should'nt need advises because the cure is in your self-control and self-discipline attitude!Try to have a girlfiend and focus yourself to a new relationship,you can't avoid boys but try not to have sex with boys as well as stop fantasizing about boys! You are lucky enough if you will survive your transformation from being gay to straight and good luck! You have your choice to live as a man but I don,t know if you can resist the tempatation,I wish you could!
2006-07-28 01:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is as it is, not how we wish it to be. You can only follow what comes naturally to you, and you will have to worry about the others, or what you say to them, later. You have not chosen to feel the way you do. Such things are not a choice. You can only be who you are, and hope that those you love, understand it. Be at peace, in any case. You are not alone. And life is a lot more than just the sex you choose to practice. There is a lot of life to take joy in...........do it.
2006-07-28 01:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by kurt h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you didn't say what ur gender is...I don't want to assume.
If you are a boy and you have already had gay sex and you liked it, but your saying that you don't want to like boys and that you DO want to like girls...that seems like you are denying who you are attracted to.
Now if you are a girl and you have already had heterosexual sex and you enjoyed it but don't want to like boys anymore....and that you want to be with girls, doesn't that still seem like u are being untrue to yourself.
I believe I have heard that if you are gay, then you are gay! But, if you claim that you are Bi, then that means that you just don't know what you want...I dunno, it just sounds like you may be needing to take a break from SEX altogether just so you can focus on some other issues surrounding your life, your sexual identity will reveal itself in good time.
2006-07-28 01:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by reighngstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that's nothing but the Devil himself using
you like that. God did not put you on Earth to be
in the world of sin. You know ever time you do have sex
the Devil is laughing at you cause he knows if you continue
your going to visit him on day. Pray to God ask him for help
cause you need to be deliver from that your brave to ask that
question I'm glad you did. Think about what your doing to
God and not yourself okay
2006-07-28 01:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax... you arent bisexual. You are homosexual.
If you only want to like girls, you are homosexual.
I understand that the lesbian community is very supportive... try going to a gay cafe and talking to some women there.
good luck and remember, its not a choice for life. you can change your mind anytime.
2006-07-28 01:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you have had some experiences that have helped you decide your sexuality. It's ok.......you sound young. Sex isn't important right now. Well...and being bi-sexual isn't all about sex. Just go with the flow......let life take its course.
2006-07-28 01:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen Clerks 2? Maybe you need to find a girl with an oversized clitoris. That's a step away from a guy with a very small penis.
2006-07-28 01:01:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋