is there a problem with me being bi?? am i normal??
help.
2006-07-27 17:16:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hahaha oops..i meant to say DUMB not SUMB hahahha
2006-07-27 17:17:51 · update #1
Sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero to homosexual. Most are on the hetero end, some on the homosexual end, and some are more in the middle.
It's just biology baby!
2006-07-27 17:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attractive and between 18 and 30, then there's nothing wrong with dating anyone where there is a mutual attraction. After 30, you will be nasty, sumb, dumb, wrong and creepy. Oh wait, that's me. I used to be normal and inside I still feel the same, but I'm over 40 and that means that if I talk about sex at all- Boom! Instant creep.
One thing. Be respectful and don't be promiscuous. You can go through your life breaking hearts left and right only to find yourself very alone someday. Sorry to make an assumption like that, but to some extent, "Bi" means you want to have sex with every attractive person you meet and you might never get emotionally involved if you live that way. It's good to love. Even better to be loved. Love and sex are not actually the same.
And you are looking for validation from people who don't even know you here on Yahoo. You can't put much stock in anything you read here when the subject is what kind of person you are. Who knows if you don't?
My advice: love someone even if they aren't perfect, even if they make you mad sometimes and maybe they will love you back even if you aren't perfect, etc.
2006-07-27 17:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by anyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Being Bi can be the result of just being Bi. Maybe you're just attracted to all sorts of people... no problem.
However, being bi is sometimes a psychological side effect of being molested as a child by someone of the same sex. You're attracted to men, but your brain is trying to tell you that you're also attracted to women as a way of coping with what happened when you were young. In which case it could be a problem and it could potentially create major difficulties in your life and relationshops. Especially if you've repressed the memories and you aren't aware of it.
Really, you have to look into who you are as a person. If it's just who you are then learn to accept it. There is nothing wrong with you. However, if it's because of something that happened to you then you should talk to a therapist and try to be happy in your life instead.
2006-07-27 20:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dyonysus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem, it's fine.
A lot of younger people who self-identify as bisexual, end up later behaving either totally gay or totally straight. That's normal too. If some gay people give you a hard time about "sitting on the fence" ignore them. If you're working through the sex thing in order to find you place, that's cool. On the other hand, some few people remain bisexual for life, and they are good people too.
NORMAL. YES
2006-07-28 01:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are what you are, you is what you is, Better bi than lonely, eh? I would have a Bi girlfriend if i could find one, not to share her girlfreinds, neccesarily, but just to get her out of the house once in a while, and still know she wasnt with some other dude, I cant hang with that. but another girl wouldnt bother me.
2006-07-27 17:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi. Yes it's a problem , but in a relationship you gotta be committed to that person. Otherwise there is no relationship. Been there, done that. It's not good.
2006-07-27 17:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're normal. A lot of people are bi. I don't think there is a problem with you being bi.
2006-07-27 17:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! I just hate it when women are too ugly to get a man they turn into a stud thinking they can get a women.nothing is nasty, and nothing is dumb about it.some people disapprove and some send approval, but who care what other people think as long as your happy in life.
2006-07-27 17:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be what ever you want. Sexuality is totally a private choice. Normal? what is that? Try average. No you are not average, but who is.
Be a good person, no mater what your sexual orientation.
2006-07-27 17:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Bernard B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, do you like to watch two guys do things to each other? if the answer is no then how do you think it would be normal for two girls to do things to each other of the same nature?
2006-07-27 17:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by hey you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋