It is like people are jealous and they are doing it to me. I can't get past it.
2006-07-27 16:56:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
there is nothing "real you" but there is a comfortable in feeling that makes you likes your atitude, thats it
be a selfish man may help, temporarily
express your self, it is a basic
2006-07-27 17:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Henry W 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're having trouble being yourself, you must think that the fake you is more useful in many of the situations that you face. Perhaps, you are afraid that the real you will not be very adept with relationships.
Whatever the reason, I think it is very healthy to have appropriate outlets for the real you. Maybe, you should take up a creative hooby and use that as a way of connecting with new people so you'll be more comfortable letting your guard down. Being real all the time would leave you real lonely and real miserable. Pick your spots.
As for the jealousy, people will always be jealous of you if possess or can do something that they cannot. You'll just have to accept that. My policy is to only give a damn about the opinions of others if they teach me something or can affect my life. Other than that, who cares what they think?
2006-07-27 17:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by D.A. S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let people get to u, sometimes people being jealous is saying u look goood!!! don't take it as a bad thing. Go head and rubb it in there face!!
2006-07-27 18:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by summer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start loving yourself & avoid being a sociophobic.
2006-07-27 18:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋