Just curious, has any girl purposely gotten pregnant without telling her boyfriend/husband. (no i did not and don't plan on doing this)
2006-07-27 16:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by Octo 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I knew a girl when I was growing up, she lived with her b/f and she wanted a baby, basically just because she thought she was losing her b/f, anyway, she went through his condoms which was in his dresser drawer, and poked pin hoes in all of them, and she ended up p.g. about a month or so later. The guy stuck with her until she had the baby, and I don't know if he found out or what, but he left her. He never paid child support or anything. I feel sorry for the child, because he never had a father, or a real mother. Because she became to resent the child because of who the father of this child was.
I feel this is wrong. I feel that if you want a child, then you should do it with someone that wants one with you, or go to a sperm bank. Don't try to trick someone into being a parent.
2006-07-27 19:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have had some trying times in the pregnancy department...One stillborn and a miscarriage...We had decided that we were going to wait but atleast 6 months before trying again..Its been 6 months now and he doesnt really want a baby right now but I on the other hand, am wanting a baby so badly..I dont trick him into anything...He knows I want it and he doesnt care too much..Hes just worried...As am I...We dont use any protection or birth control so how I see it, is if he really was dead set against it then he would use protection or something.....He knows the reprucutions of unprotected sex..So I guess what I am saying is that If I knew he really didnt want me to fall pregnant then I wouldnt and I would use precautions...
A child deserves a loving family with both mum and dad involved...
2006-07-28 02:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who did to trap a guy. They got married, then divorced 2 years later. It's such a horrible thing to do. A baby deserves to have 2 parents who wanted to have him/her. It's selfish, and being a mother is about being selfless.
2006-07-27 23:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure alot of girls do that to trap the guy but if he doesnt want a baby i dont think he will stay and help her
2006-07-28 08:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens every day sweetheart and it is really tragic for the child especially when the parents are not together.
2006-07-28 00:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by catherder24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know of anyone who has done such thing, but I don't think it's uncommon.
2006-07-27 23:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i know a guy who tryed to get his wife pregnate with out her knowing. they now have two daughters!!!! (the guy was my cousin)
2006-07-28 01:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by naightengale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋