Okay, I am curious. I am in my late 20's and my fiancee and I have been together for 7 years. We have a freind that is really cool and such. Anyways we have a very healthy relationship and my bf wants to please me by having them both in bed with me. We are both straight, no kids, etc. Both successful in careers. If we do this I am scared of something bad happening to me and my bf although we are strong. Any advice and opinions. Please no answers to mock fun...This is a serious question and I want WOMEN opinions. So please answer if you have and how it went.
2006-07-27 16:40:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok, i'm not a woman but i do have experience in that field
i did that with a friend of mine and her husband, they invited me and we set some rules, not many though, but everyone understood what was happening and what would transpire.
everyone had a good time and everyone was happy about it, i still hang out with them once in a while and we are all on friendly terms and stuff, just never really talk about what happened, that was for them to enjoy.
if you are going to do this then you both have to agree to it and both have to set ground rules before even confronting your friend about it
and remember, have fun
2006-07-27 16:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
When one guy ejaculates his 20 million little DNA transmitters into one other guy's rectal micro organism gap... The results is a chemical response that may end up in the production of what God calls an abomination. - An abomination is anything that's alive, that are meant to NOT have existence. Something that is most effective rationale is to be a detriment to existence. LIKE THE AIDS VIRUS; LIKE THE BUBONIC PLAGUE; LIKE THE COMMON COLD; EBOLA; INFLUENZA; ETC. Iran is following the historic legislation, in which God mentioned that Man-Man intercourse is an executable offense. Two ladies do NOT have the DNA transmitters to provide an abomination. They are being un-godly; however don't seem to be a hazard to existence on the whole. Now, Jesus has paid for our sins; so homosexuals will also be forgiven. BUT -- Their movements are nonetheless a DETRIMENT to existence.
2016-08-28 16:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am not a woman.....but I know how this could end up from past experiments of my own. I too offered to bring my girl another and ended up losing a very good friend over it and later the girl too. Just think about what could go wrong. You could end up enjoying the friends company more than the guy you have been with for 7 years or you may not like it and be hounded for a very long time to do it again. Your man and his bud could end up hating one another afterward. I thought I was ready to do this ....until it came down to it and I never got over it (ruined the relationships). Good luck.
2006-07-27 17:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by turbietech 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I haven't, but I don't think you should. your fiancee is only trying to fulfill a common male fantasy of watching his lover have sex with another man. Is that really what you want? Have you ever seen those horrible pornos where the women is being "used" as a hole by a group of men. It usually ends with her looking tired and spent with "you know what" all over her face. I think it's sick. But that's me. If you really want it, you should go for it, it will probably be your only chance. It might cause some problems in your relationship though. Your fiance could become jealous and distrustful, and what if this is his way of trying to ask you to give HIM a threesome with you and another woman? woudl you do that? ugh.
2006-07-27 16:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have had sex with two guys. My first time was with my bf and my girl friends boy friend. She and I planed it with out the boys knowing. I think they found it more weird being naked with me even though she and I dared the boys to have sex with her and me. They were willing but they weren t really sure the opposite girls bf got the ok to do mfm. In college it wasn t the norm but doing mfm did happen many times. I know I found it very enjoyable being with two naked boys or men at the same time. My gf and I still do mfm with our hubbys or with other men which our hubbys are aware of.
2016-08-06 08:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by girlforguyfemale 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
My situation is very much like yours. I am also in my late 20s. My husband and I have been married for 8 years. He wants to have a threesome with another woman, but being a straight woman, I would prefer another man, which he would never consider. So, basically we are stuck there. It will forever be my fantasy and probably stay that way.......only a fantasy.
2006-07-27 16:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by witchywoman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yup I have done it and while it was hella fun,this should not happen with someone you have feelings for.Bottom line:He will think of a certain image whenever you fight etc.This is a test,a crafty one,so if there is any future for you two dont do it.
2006-07-27 17:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by mexicanprincessinaz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should. I know some one who did that. They went ahead and got married. Now her husband has no respect for her and throws it in her face constantly. He said that if she would have been a "lady" if she wouldn't have done that even though it was his idea and they went through with it. Now she feels bad because he lost respect for her.
2006-07-27 16:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by lavendergrl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope... only in fantasy when Colin Farrell and Matthew McConaughey fight over me.
But men always want 2 women so I say go for it if it's two men but only if you are comfortable and want to.
2006-07-27 16:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ang_Bluestones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have an amazing open minded set up, do what feels good.
i would enjoy myself, and strengthen my relationship with both men, as long as you feel secure enough to express you self.
2013-12-23 08:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Janetta 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋