Looking for more advise....
I've been obsessed wiht a guy for over a year. I know , it sounds sad and pathetic but is true. I can't get over him, No matter what I do to try to forget abuout him. We didn't date for too long but I gess it was enough... What can I do? I've already tried dating other people, I had one serious relationship after that and it didn't work. I keep thinking about him. Please help me find a solution. Thanks a lot
2006-07-27 16:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by Vero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stay away from him.Continue to date other people.Find someone who look better then him.After so long you will find it silly to obsess over him, even years from now you will see him and think"I can't believe i ever liked him".What you should do is stay busy.
2006-07-27 16:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're infatuated moreso. The obsessive thoughts are there and they make you feel as though you still feel something for him which in reality you probably don't.
Give it some time and preoccupy your time with other things or someone else and realize that it's just your mind playing tricks with your emotion. It happens... Lord knows I've been obsessed with more than one. But I know the source and I am able to defeat it by obsessing about someone else;)
2006-07-27 16:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ang_Bluestones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you continue to date others and perhaps seek counselling. You are wasting a lot of your life obsessing over someone that you can not have.
2006-07-27 16:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE..
I don't know how old you are, but if you are older than 15, you need to grow up!!! It didn't work out, so it's time for you to move on..!!! otherwise, you are only making yourself miserable!!
2006-07-27 16:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ummmmm GET A LIFE....... make a list of all the bad things he did and all the bad habbits he had and all the things about him that you did not like about him example " he always left the toilet seat up" or left his dishes" and stuff....oh and dont forget to burn his pics !!!!have fun
2006-07-27 16:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him.. sounds easy enough. try to replace what you are missing abou thim with something else. dont go down memory lane. anythin gyou have from him get rid of it.
2006-07-27 16:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive done that and it lasted probly 10 years even after i got married but you just have to move on.... what helped me was talking to him again years later and realizing he never grew up but i did
2006-07-27 16:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets be serious here, it was the sex huh? trust me, men come and go. just follow your heart and the reason you ask is because your heart tells you something is wrong.
2006-07-27 16:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS LOVE TRUST ME ur heart is tellin u . u want him deep down and u cant stand not beein with him talk to him and ull be really happy on wat u did ITS CALLED TRUE LOVE age dont matter
2006-07-27 16:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by SeeKer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you try talking to him? maybe you could start dating again,like a second try or something?
2006-07-27 16:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jesuslovesyou! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋