2006-07-27 16:28:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally I think that the more insecure you become with his love for you, the more paranoid you will become as to whether he loves you or not. Look deeper into your relationship and look at the things that he does for you, or you do together. The problem is you are in a bit of a vicious circle and I speak from experience, I lost a guy through being so paranoid that he didn't love me, and he did, he told me so when it had all ended, and also once it had ended I recognised what was love. We never got it back together as it had tainted the relationship, so my advice is for you to search deeper into your relationship, start to do new things to make yourself more secure in your life, become independent, and he will fall back in love with you being the strong woman that you were when he met you. Do things for yourelf, and learn to love and respect yourself again......it works, beleive you me, I am now in a brilliant relationship.....good luck.
2006-07-28 02:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by happyballerinagirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, you are 38 and he is 27, now age should not make a difference at all, but it's about 10 years difference here.
I am 3 years older than my husband so I'm not making any judgements about that at all. I do think when there's that much age difference, it can matter simply because,
one will be more insecure than the other, and one is settled and one isn't. Maybe that's the reason you feel
he doesn't love you, but honestly if he loves you, he'll
let you know by how he treats you and if he doesn't love
you, you'll know that the same way. Good Luck
2006-07-28 00:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't think he loves you, then chances are that he probably doesn't. He most likely has other things in mind like sex, or money, both, or something else. If you have to question other people about your own love life, then there is definitely something wrong. Love is just one of those things you know for sure, and never have to question unless there is a flaw in the relationship.
2006-07-27 23:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this and don't take it the wrong way but your problem isn't whether your hubby loves you or not. Its far more to do with the age difference between you.Love can be complex enough without loading the dice against yourself. i suggest you try to be a bit more patient with him at twenty seven he,s only just found out who he is.maturity requires time give him some.
2006-07-28 01:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly it shouldn't matter about the age, and seeing that you're married it obviously never did. just have it out with him, that's the only way to know, and if not you're still young- 38 is not old by any means!!!
2006-07-27 23:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing u can do is trying to talk as it is the most honest way of finding the answers to your questions. Good luck honey!!!
2006-07-28 15:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Angel From The Hell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not entirely sure why you would think otherwise-- Does he treat you bad? or does he never tell u or show you that he loves you? should know that yourself you married him.
Without knowing the facts I can't really say anymore than that
2006-07-28 02:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thought you would have settled that before you tied the Knots!! rather strange that you are asking at this point in time. How long have you been married anyway?
2006-07-28 06:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by floxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him? Sit down and have a serious heart to heart. Get everything out in the open.
2006-07-27 23:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down of an evening and ask him out right do you love me if he is a real man he will asnswer truthly
2006-07-28 04:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by stanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋