from him and with him not being here I feel lonely, scared and confused. I do love him,but he is not HERE. So, until he gets here, I have to do what I have to do to see my marriage through.
2006-07-27 16:26:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're a spoiled b*tch.
2006-07-27 16:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by szydkids 5 · 10⤊ 4⤋
S O R R Y! What kind of poor excuse is that? I'm sorry to be so hard on you but I think Y O U need to grow up. For a minute I don't believe you love your husband the way you should. If you did, you absolutely would not cheat. You should be looking to find ways to stay busy. I think you may be desperate for attention but there are other ways to gain attention than cheating. Immerse yourself in extra work. You can paint rooms, rearrange furniture, work at a full time job, maybe work a part time job as well so you are around other people, volunteer (many, many places need help from volunteers and it may make you feel good about yourself), help an old neighbor out by mowing or helping them clean, and their are hundreds of other things to do to keep busy till he arrives home. Think about this - - - what's going to happen when he finds out he was willing to give his life so you could be free here in the US?
2006-07-27 16:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by HolidayGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot of growing up to do, I am sorry to say. I really hope that your husband doesn't have any specialized training. I am on active duty, and have been for over 16 years, through two wars, and I can't count how many of my guys I have had to literally tie up at my house, just so they wouldn't do anything stupid, to either their cheating, lying wives, or the boyfriends.
It is a crying shame that my boys and girls this time around(I am including everyone that has served in a combat area) has to deal with getting shot at daily, possibly blown-up, and then they have to come home to deal with problems like you.
My first bit of advice, whatever you do, DO NOT tell him until he gets home. That will save more lives than just his, unless you really want him,(and by extension, YOU) to be responsible for someone else's brother, sister, wife, husband, son, or daughter to not make it home, because YOUR husband got careless, or stopped caring about his safety altogether, all because you can't keep your pants on.
My second bit of advice, let him go. You don't deserve him. Let him be with someone that will respect and love him enough to be with him and him only!
2006-07-27 16:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but your reason of him "not being there" is stupid. Don't you remember your vows? In good times and bad...are you a baby that needs constant attention? Don't you think he is feeling the same since you are not there? And while you are getting pleasure he is getting shot at in a senseless war. You are not sorry because you are trying to justify your action and put the blame on him for not being there. If your marriage is based on sex then it is bound to fail anyhow, better just tell him the truth. At least you don't have to worry about facing him since he is trapped in Irag!
2006-07-27 16:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by rain2snw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you put something like this on here you know you are going to get bashed by every woman on the planet because none of them ever do anything wrong. and all the good people that judge someone because you are so perfect and have been given special rights to start judgment day. hey you do what you feel you have to do I just don't see why you post it.
2006-07-27 16:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Athena, if he were to get shot and killed there (god forbid ) I think it would be safe to assume that you would feel terrible only if you had any #$%&ing morals at all. You cheating on a man fighting for our country is disgraceful. How do you carry the guilt? Or do you have any guilt at all? That is wrong in so many ways. Unbelievable!
2006-07-28 00:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is that is F*CK*D up that you would do that. He is over there fighting and could die and your whore A$$ is over here cheating on him. You should just stop being a SLUT!!! How could you do that.
You just need to get a divorce and then you can find osmeone none military that you can screw everyday!
2006-07-27 16:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married???? It was obviously not the right reason. So when he comes home from Iraq,
then what? You'll be content with him, until he has to
go away again? Divorce him !!!
2006-07-27 17:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would come up with a better excuse than im use to getting alot of attention. your poor husband is over there fighting and you think you deserve more attention. you need to divorce him. he deserves a real woman ...not some little kid!! GROW UP
2006-07-27 16:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by missindy46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no excuse for your action. You know you have done wrong. Your plea is to try to give creedence to your betrayal. When you lay your head down at night in peace---the peace he's fighting for---, remember why your husband is not next to you, and remember it may unfortunately be permanent. Pleasant dreams!
2006-07-27 16:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by sassi_1_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm telling you, you will NEVER EVER forgive yourself for this. It WILL eat you alive. You will wake up thinking about what you did and go to bed thinking about what you did. It's not something that you "get over". You never get over it. It will haunt you forever.
2006-07-27 16:53:28 · answer #11 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋