me and my husband have been togethter for almost eight years he does not really like the club thing we are 25 and 27 any good ideas on what a fun exciting thing to do to spice things up and to surprise him with i was think of something like dinner a movie and a speacil night at home but i want some guys ideas
2006-07-27 16:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
From my experience, the club thing can be sort of a waste. It's usually so loud in most clubs, that you can't really talk with anyone. How about a vacation to a really fun place.
2006-07-27 16:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Click on this link to Amazon.com (Or buy it at Barnes & Noble, Borders Books…) and buy the book 101 Nights of Grrreat Romance: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples (Paperback) by Laura Corn .
Amazon.com Editorial Reviews
Wow. One hundred and one complete blueprints for a romantic seduction scene. Once a week you and your beloved are supposed to pick a scenario from the book; they're packaged so that they can't be read until they're torn out and opened, so neither of you will have a clue what the other has in store for you. (No cheating!) Icons on the front pages of each plan let you know the approximate cost, whether travel or food is involved, and whether it should be chosen during a particular season. Have a grrreat time!
Book Description
One hundred and one complete blueprints for a romantic seduction scene. Once a week you and your beloved are supposed to pick a scenario from the book; they're packaged so that they can't be read until they're torn out and opened, so neither of you will have a clue what the other has in store
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It is a great way to put the spark back into the relationship. There are 101 sealed, tear-out pages (seductions) in this book. 50 seductions are FOR HIS EYES ONLY and 50 seductions are FOR HER EYES ONLY. The last page is for both of you after you fulfilled the other seductions. While many people follow the recommended one seduction per week per person, some people have found it more cost effective and time efficient to take turns in that one week it is your husbands turn to plan the seduction for you and the next week you get to plan the seduction for him.
When you open a page, it is divided into four sections: The Conversation Piece; The Kiss Of The Week; The Passion Coupon; and the Seduction. The conversation piece is generally an excerpt (or excerpts) from books like “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus) and it is designed to stimulate conversation as well as show some differences between men and women.
You most likely will find that not all of the seduction work for you but you are encouraged to alter and adjust them to make them fit your needs.
Once you have used a seduction, decide if it was worth repeating or not. If so, save it in a large envelope and use it again down the road. If not, trash it or give it to a friend who would enjoy it.
I hope that this helps and I wish you both all the best!
PS. I have provided the link to Amazon.com for you down below.
2006-07-31 03:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You need to go on a pretend first date.
Try pretending to not know each other...tell him to go to some bar at 7:30pm at a hotel. You show up at 7:45pm....and start on the other side of the bar. Each work to meeting each other.
The conversation would be pretty forward...and the both of you end the conversation with want to go back to my place.....
The others listening will be freakin'
2. See if you can organize an in car driving scavanger hunt with other couples. Someone puts together a list of things to find and the last thing is at some place you all meet up for a bon fire....or home for a party.
3. Mall hunt? look for:
a perfume sample
a store catalogue
2 napkins with a logo on them
3 store bags
a to-go menu
a discarded receipt
and a straw
2006-07-27 23:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want some real spice, try a vibrating c**k ring that gives pleasure to both. First, start with dinner with you only wearing a apron. Than progress until you get to my first sentence. If you have never tired light bondage, than I would tie your husband up before trying my first sentence. My girlfriend enjoyed being on top when I wore one this past weekend.
2006-07-27 23:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A special night out should be a weekend at a resort or place where you can be alone without interuption. Someplace away from your immediate neighborhood so it seems fresh and new... A place where you both can be catered to or you can cater to him! Or surprise him by taking him to do a guy thing that he knows you don't have a keen interest of. Tickets to a sporting event followed by going to that special place where you can cater to each other.....He will appreciate your effort to make him happy!
2006-07-27 23:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lady and I went White Water Rafting and had ourselves a blast. Why not get away for a relaxing weekend of canoeing, kayaking and a nice meal. Then go out on a raft and ride the wild water. You'll meet lots of nice people and perhaps find something exciting that you both can enjoy.
2006-07-27 23:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dinner and movie and special night at home?
thats spicy?
sounds like an average night
ok, at the dinner go under the table and give him a BJ
at the movie sit al the way in the back and just do him
then at home go all out, i'm sure it will blow his mind a little
2006-07-27 23:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dinner and a movie with a romantic night at home is always good but ask him what he would like to do that goes along way with men
2006-07-27 23:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a threesome with paris hilton. Then maybe a trip to the Syhillus clinic
2006-07-27 23:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by armycountryside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a motel with a hot tub its awesome
2006-07-27 23:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by fireman_hunt_fish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋