2006-07-27 15:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Dorothy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Many many times
2006-07-27 15:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, My spouse had some heatlh problems for over a couple of years and I could not take it any longer not having any sexual contact from a woman. A woman I met was a friend of a friend that I already new for a few years and new what I was going thru. .Did I feel guilty or ashamed,no not at all,Did I feel conviction for having this affair,No way! Would I do it again today! Yes, if opportunity knocks. I am back in a very similar sitiation and we have not had sex since last October and I dont look to see us having any sex the rest of this year because of her health problems and back surgery. I was told to my face the other day that my S.O. could care less if she ever got well again to have sex period. We are only married by common law and not on paper. Sounds like an open door to go find a partner to me! Any women volunteers in central AL.! Race unimportant..
2006-07-27 16:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i currently am and its not worthed. The guilt is there night and day. I know im not leaving my husband, so its just a big problem. How i wish i never met him and begun this . How i wish i could be like those couples that are married 50 years and look into eachothers eyes with such yearning and lust. I let that all slip away in my relationship. But im trying to fall back in love with my husband again.
2006-07-27 16:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not going to take the sanctity of marriage seriously, then don't get married. Affairs just ruin people's lives.
I was married for 16 years and faithful. I found out he was having an affair and could never trust him again. -- I got the house.
2006-07-27 16:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I did unfortunately. I thought I love the guy and was actually going to end my marriage to be with him. I told him I need some time apart to tell my husband and while trying to tell my husband he said some things to me that made me realized why I married him in the first place and now I wouldn't trade my husband for anything in the world.
2006-07-27 16:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by shabana0903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It destroyed my marriage, my relationship with my kids, my family. It destroyed my self esteem. It eats away at me day and night, each and everyday. I would NOT recommend it. The guilt almost kills you. Your life is NEVER the same.
2006-07-27 17:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No--it makes people lose all respect for you, including the person you are cheating with, so what is the point in the end.
2006-07-27 16:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you directing your question to an individual
2006-07-27 16:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by unsirtnty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but he did. (ex of course)
2006-07-27 16:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, never
2006-07-27 15:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋