ok, i know this is stupid but, i am 26 and dont have my drivers license, i dropped out of high school when?

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i was 16 so i didnt get it then and even when i became old enough to i couldnt afford a car so i never got it then, and now i am starting college and it would just be too inconvienent for my fiancee to take me pick me up and go to work himself.....so anyway i have to do it now....i am so scared....i have to start practicing this weekend...he tells me its not hard everybody does it....i know that but still sooo nervous....has anyone been in this situation??? were u scared then once u tried was it just no big deal or did u get in an accident? or what? like i said i know its stupid i shouldve done it years ago etc....well if u read this whole thing thanks

Answer 1

My mother took her first driving lesson at age 64. It took her longer to learn than a teenager would take, but so what?

At age 28, your biggest problem is not coordination, which is better than it was when you were 14, but self confidence. Your fiancee says it's not hard, and right now you are not prepared to believe him.

So take longer than normal to learn, whatever normal is, and you will do fine. The best initial confidence builder I know is driving in the biggest, emptiest parking lot you can find.

Answer 2

I totally understand. I lived with a parent who was alcholic and went behind the wheel with the drink fresh in their system.
I never did get my real license when I was younger, just a learner's permit, I am almost your age and I've only had my license for about 5 years and I seldom really drive myself around much. I must say, it took me about 1 year later to get adept or very good at driving on the Highway and passing into lanes in fast traffic on the Highway. But actually, highway driving is EASIER! Try this: Practice behind the malls or large supermarket parking lots on Sunday when they are closed, then try driving the Interstate (better chances for empty lanes on the paid Toll road yes, it's $0.50 but it's worth it) when it's pretty clear like Early Sunday morning. You will love it! It's a freedom that you will enjoy. And the best part: it's easier than it looks if you, especially if you start with automatic. Stick shift is EASY too but it takes a bit more concentration at first.

Answer 3

It's not stupid at all, so stop saying that.

I learned to drive when I was 17...but my folks were willing to start teaching me when I was 14...but I think I was scared, too. And to make matters worse...our cars were stick shifts...so not only did I have to figure out how not to drive into a tree, I had to figure out how to work the gears...AHHH

Have you ever driven go-carts or bumper cars? It's actually similar in many ways. If it's an automatic...you kind of just get in the car and go! Staying in your lane is easy...just look ahead and it naturally happens.

Oooh...this will be so exciting and fun after you get through your first session. Try to go someplace that isn't a road...like an empty parking lot...I learned in the park...it had winding roads all over the place and I could easily get my speed up and get used to it.

Have fun...and don't feel stupid!

Answer 4

If a policeman stops you they're going to hand out a penalty fee ticket instant. If a digital camera catches you rushing then the interest would be despatched to the handle the place the motor vehicle is registered. The gadget can purely see the motor vehicle's variety plate, it can't see your licence so it does no longer be responsive to what handle is written on that. consequently the folk at your previous handle will acquire a rushing fee ticket in the submit. they're going to in all risk return this to DVLA and then go-checking will happen. If the folk throw the interest away the DVLA will ask your self why you haven't any longer paid your effective. they're going to correlate the motor vehicle registration with your licence and the penalty observe would be despatched to you. you will then in all risk ought to pay a penalty for no longer notifying DVLA of the recent handle the place the motor vehicle is saved. you need to additionally inform your coverage company on the subject of the exchange of handle. till this is finished (and any adjustment of top type made) you're using against the words of your coverage; meaning which you're no longer insured.

Answer 5

Hang in there. You'll get a licence. I got mine when I was 25. Failed the driving exam while in high school and took life easy for the next 10 years. Never had enough money for a car and wasn't on good terms with my parents.
Became a Christian, got on good terms with my parents and got the support I needed to try again.

Answer 6

Ok i hate telling this story, but i'm going to. And as critical as people are here on answers, i'm going to anyway. I'm 31, i just got my license in march. Why? Cause i was in an accident that i know i might have died in. Regardless, i let fear keep me from driving for so many years. And finally i said to myself what the heck is my problem. So i got my permit. Three years ago. By that point no one would take me serious enough to help me learn. But finally my little sister and her husband helped me, and i got over it and driving is fun. I encourage to take your boyfreinds offer and go for it. Cause it's fun. And it'd be embarrassing at any age over 18 to have other people cart you around.
Liberated driver.

Answer 7

It's really weird at first being on the road, but you (after a little while) get the feel of the car you're driving and then it's okay. I have been driving since I was 16 (I'm now 27) and I still get this feeling when I'm driving any car other than my own.

It does get easier.

Answer 8

I know a 40 year old woman who just got her license! She was nervous & had to take the test a few times, but she got it! Just practice with someone who knows the laws and you'll do great!!

Much Love!!

Answer 9

the first time i got behind the wheel i was scared half to death because i was on this windy road that had all these 90 degree angle turns and i almost put us in the ditch but after that i was fine take your chances if you have your fiance there for you take his help you will do fine its not as hard as you think Good Luck

Answer 10

i just turned 18 earlier this week, and i still just have my permit..
i've scared as well..
but i know i have to get my license in order to go to college in the fall..

my advice: face your fears -- learn! (telling you from experience)

i have only practiced once so far, and i really have to practice myself!

you dont want to be dependent on others for the rest of your life.

good luck, and best wishes!