When my kids were little, my ex husband made several calls to protective services saying I abused the kids. They even went to the school once and pulled them out of class and made them undress, so they could examine their bodies. They came to my dads house with the police and accused me of not supervising my 2 kids when they were 9 and 11. My dad was watching them while I went to the grocery store to get some pop. They made my dad give them a statement saying he was responsible for the kids while I was gone. Abuse did not occur, but I was always convinced, if they looked hard enough they would find something. Finally in court they had to testify that I was being harrassed by my x.
My x has not seen my son in about 10 yrs. He really put us thru hell and my son is basically tired of it. He is 21 yrs old now and I would like for him to change his last name to mine. Do you think that would be too much to ask? I am not married and his name should have been the same as mine at birth.
2006-07-27 15:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Alot of ex-spouses pull this same scenario. It really is ridiculous. When I was little somebody called protective services on my Dad saying that he had sexually abused me. My parents weren't divorced or anything. That was so embarassing for my family. It was just a big stress and a hassle for a few days. I don't recall them ever checking up on us again. And the case was unfounded. As far as your son changing his name I think that is up to him. I'd ask him and respect his decision either way.
2006-07-27 16:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by pottersclay70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have & am having trouble finding a free lawyer to help me....
I had a friend at the Apt. complex I used to live in that my kids just LOVED....Someone (I think it was HER now) was calling Child Protective services on me a lot - so we let them come by every day to make sure the kids were ok. After we moved & I still let my kids visit her because they loved her.....
My husband has major depression & our Dr. switched his meds & he freaked out!!!
I called my "friend" & asked if she could come get the kids for about a day & a half & she came & picked them up.....I didn't hear from her for 2 days & was REALLY freaking out!!!
My family service person came by to make sure the kids wouldn't be in trouble from my hubby & she gets a call that my "friend" dumped my kids at her office & they won't give them back until we go to court!!!
Both my hubby & I are disabled so I'm looking for a good lawyer who will work for free. Any Advice???
2006-07-27 15:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Catcanscratch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had cps called but he is your son if you and he want to change I say go for it who care about the piece of crap he has for a father
2006-07-27 15:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by rachiecakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask, but don't expect much.
2006-07-27 16:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Marvinator 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE
2006-07-27 15:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋