ok well i know this boy who is tryin to get me to lose my virgintay but i don't think im ready i mean he's 16 an im 14 an well im not tryin to have a baby an he hate's to use a codomn so what should i do
2006-07-27 15:37:23 · 21 answers · asked by cutiegirl_22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetheart, you are TOO YOUNG to have sex. This guy is Trouble. Dont you know this guy could give you AIDS, herpes, genital warts, and other Sexually Transmitted Diseases?
Most teens have these diseases and they dont even know it.
This other Teacher told me that at his highschool 2 teens tested positive for HIV a few months ago.
You need to tell your MOM and DAD if he wont leave you alone..This guy just wants to use you. (Dear, try to wait until you get married to have sex, it'll be so much better)
Tell your parents, or an uncle if he keep pressuring you.
Call the Natonal AIDS & STD hotline to speal to a councelor and learn about the consequences of sex at
1-800-342-AIDS.
Go this website below to learn about diffrent Sexually Transmitted Diseases, and Look At the Pictures. See what can happen to you through sex without condoms.
And remember that condoms do not protect you from herpes and genital warts because they are caught from skin-to-skin contact (when the crease of 2 people's thighs rub together), and from kissing and oral sex.
2006-07-27 16:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Young Lady you have many years over 50 years to enjoy intimacy. Don't
do anything that you don't feel comfortable with. Don't do anything you thing your not ready for. You have plenty of time to choose someone special. At
16 a young man has hormones rushing through his body that make him a little crazy. That is not your responsibility to take care on his urges. When you are ready and some day you will be. You should also be safe,protect your self.
2006-07-27 15:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by always a friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from personal experience, sex is better when you get a little older and are old enough to appreciate it for all of its meanings. I lost my virginity at 16 and i wish i had waited because of the fact that now i feel it was with the wrong person, and i just wasnt ready for it. I am 19 now and i have a 15 month old daughter.... just think, whether you use protection or not, it could happen to you. (I was on the pill, and i didnt miss one either) So think carefully before you make the decision to take a step that big.
2006-07-27 16:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, you are not ready yet my friend, and great decision tryin to keep your virginity first. You are still young only 14...
You know, sometimes we must make a seperated between love and lust.
when a man really love you, he will try to understand you and respect you. He will not forced his intention meanwhile you dont wanted. He respect you as a person who has own principles, identity and try to accept you the way you are.
Love not just defined by `making love`.... it just a small part of it, much better to do that when the time has come and you are completely ready.
2006-07-27 16:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You will regret it for the rest of your life. If you don't think you are not ready, your not ready.
What ever you do, do not get pressured into it. You can only give it away once and you will know when you are ready and will not have to ask a gazillion strangers for their opinions. Good Luck.
2006-07-27 16:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by epod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns!! If he doesn't want to use a condom he is an idiot. Has he not heard of Aids!! And if doesn't want to use a condom with you, who else did he not use a condom with. Not to mention you are very young to be thinking about sex. I had sex for the first time when I was 16 and I've regretted every day since. Once it's gone--It's gone!
2006-07-27 16:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by PjB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 23 male and I know this kind of guys will leave you after sex because he takes risk on his own life how do you expect him to care about you?Dont you ever take risk on your own life to make someone happy even if you'r very close to him.Even if you both are clean without condom is still realy dabgerous.
2006-07-27 15:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously does not respect you. First off you don't feel ready so you don't have to. If he's pressuring you to do anything, he just wants to have sex with you and that's it. Second if he really cared about you, he WOULD DEFINETLY wear a condom. You are the one in control in this situation. Please don't be another dumb statistic.
2006-07-27 15:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is kick him right in the nuts and tell him to try talking and practicing sex on the next 14 year old girl what do you think you should do. you dont let anyone push you into some thing your not ready for and you are 14 years old and totally not ready to have sex no matter how mature you think you are... and if you told your dad about it that boy i think you wouldnt have to worry about again.
2006-07-27 15:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. You need to feel comfortable when you want to lose your virginity. I think that you need to tell him how you feel about it and that if you want to have sex with him, that he needs to use a condom, even if he doesn't like the fact of using one.
2006-07-27 15:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by J-Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋