Why are "pro-choice" people so hateful?

Question

Seriously.. all you have to say is abortion is the termination of a human life (which it is) and they go crazy!
I don't get it.. maybe they're just so bitter knowing they killed their own baby and take it out on pro-life people..

And I agree that blowing up abortion clinics, or other extreme examples, are completely wrong.
But people like that make up about .0001% or less of prochoice people..

Answer 1

It does seem that way. Most of them don't WANT to believe "it's" a baby...it's easier to except what they did, OR about to do. Some crazy extremist try to make all pro-lifers look/seem crazy. I guess for some, living with that knowledge is extremely difficult, and deep down they probably know what they are doing. A life, inside a life, and yet, it's "her" body. Doesn't make much sense, does it?!

Just remember we all sin, and to pray for them.

Answer 2

Well the road goes both ways, just look at the pro-life activists that have bombed clinics and killed abortion doctors. Now see they are taking the life of the life taker and that is supposed to make it alright? That is what I don't understand you kill someone that is killing an unborn human and that is justification for the murder, I know it is hard to ride the fence on this matter but I try as much as I can. I believe that there are two or three instances when it is fine to do it (if the woman was raped, or if it is incest, or if the mother is going to die), that is it I draw the line there. What needs to happen is there needs to be better sex education in school, maybe if you started there we could eventually get to a point where there are few if any abortions. The only thing I don't get about it is that there are alot of people that say they shouldn't have sex education in school, well how are people going to know that they should use contraceptives unless they are educated about them. I mean we can't have it every way people want it, there are those out there that use abortion as a contraceptive they are like oh I am pregnant again guess I should go down to the clinic and get an abortion. Lots of things need to change before we can all be happy together and not so hateful.

Answer 3

you have to realize that people are stupid and stubborn. the only way to get people to understand a concept is to put it on a college exam. you also need to realize that everyone has their own culture. there are 14 ways to modify culture. you can start with one way which is religion. some people will actually listen to what they think actually happened 2000 years ago. abortion is a process that ends an UNBORN life. Your life didn't get going until you realized that you could make things happen (around age 2 to 5). your parents started the process of a new human life when they decided to get together. so as you can see that the same life has three different dates. some people are so obsessed that they demand you to understand them that they become irate and every thing that you don't want to see a human person act. they retaliate because they think that they are right and have made the right decision. they only understand that they can make all types of decisions and the decision that they make is the right one and you don't know really what the real right answer/decision is. you just have more manners than they do. you need to realize that everyone dies at different ages. there are a lot of babies that die before they are born. human life terminates accidentaly at any age. your first amendment states that you have the freedom of religion. you can believe at any stage of pregnancy when a fetus is actually a human life. since we don't have rights until we are born then the man and women who started the process of bringing a fetus into existence are allowed by law to make the decision since they are required by law to care for them once the child is born. this country has the separation of church and state. you are not realizing the in depth differences that were solved 250 years ago. the idiots that you are coming in contact with have less of an education than you. from now on you should learn to just keep educating yourself and don't get involved in a sensitive conversation with stupid people.

Answer 4

I personally believe that people should have a choice (I'm male, by the way) but I also believe that abortion is now getting WAY too easy, it seems less like a last resort for people who are desperate, and more like an alternative form of contraception these days. I do see the moral argument of anti-abortionists, but I feel that the welfare of the unborn baby is as important as it's "life", if a baby is not wanted, or is the product of rape, then will it truly get the start in life that it deserves... it is just one of those moral arguments that nobody can ever win, and I have respect for both viewpoints...

Answer 5

Why are pro-life people like yourself so hung up on what others do? The same hateful conduct is demonstrated by pro-life loyalists that will murder people that work in clinics, berate women getting services At clinics and generally try to shock and scare individuals into their camp with propaganda.

If you disagree with abortion then choose to never have one- there you go, the essence of choice. As for being bitter, not quite and I carry no guilt for wanting to fight for having a choice.
Make your own choices, don't make choices for others that you have no right to control. Of course you don't get it, you are ignorant.

Answer 6

The same question could be posed to pro-life people. Ever see a calm protest in front of any Planned Parenthood in any city, in any state? I haven't.

Personally, I'm pro-life, for myself and pro-choice for any other woman. But say, your daughter/sister/best friend/etc. was raped and became pregnant. Would you force her to endure the pregnancy, even if she gave the baby up for adoption? Or on the flip-side of the coin, would you force her to terminate the pregnancy? Or on the edge of that very same coin, would you allow her to decide for herself what she wanted to do, and support her every step of the way?

And not every family planning clinic patient goes there for an abortion. Some go there for the simple fact that they don't have insurance, and can get many types of women's services there, including pre-natal check-ups, pre-natal vitamins, etc. (Just had to add that note!)

As I stated before, I am pro-life for myself, but pro-choice for any other woman. I have also been a patient at one of "those" clinics... I was young, scared, and not insured. I knew by going there, I could get the care I needed to help bring my son into the world. I did NOT give him up for adoption.

Answer 7

That's an opinion, not a question. For some women, it feels like their only choice and you have absolutely no right to judge them until you've been in their very exact personal sitiation, which is impossible. Everyone has their own stance on things, but keep your mouth shut unless you'll respect the other side, whether you agree or not.

By the way, I've been going to school for psychology for 5 years now, so this is not bs.

Answer 8

I'm pro-choice and I'm not hateful. I've never had an abortion. I just think it's not my decision to tell a woman what she can and cannot do with her own body, regardless if there's a developing fetus inside it. We say she can't have an abortion, then what? She can't smoke while pregnant? Can't drink a drop of alcohol? Can't eat fish? Where will the line be drawn?

Answer 9

When was the last time a "pro choice" advocate blew up a medical clinic?

Is killing a Doctor any different than aborting an unwanted fetus?

Answer 10

Because neocons pro-lifer's like you have attacked Pro-Choice people for so long they've finally gotten ENOUGH! I think all pro-lifer's should have to take a baby that would have been aborted and raise it to adulthood. You should all be standing at the abortion clinics handing out your name and address to the women coming in there saying to them "Bring it to me when it's born and I'll raise it since you don't want it" of course when it's born you don't care about it at all. no child care, no assistance for the poor girl who probably got raped to begin with.

Answer 11

I don't think they are hateful. I'm pro choice and I don't think I'm hateful. Be fair....pro life people get a little heated too when abortion is mentioned...if someone were to advocate abortion or something. Do you think Eric Rudolph isn't hateful? He blew up an abortion clinic!!