Why are some people getting upset because I am cheating on my husband in Iraq? I'm not the 1st to cheat &won't

Question

be the last! You know I could really divorce him for abandonment!

Answer 1

Do what you like...in the end it will all catch up to all those that are involved, life is funny like that. I won't say that only you are cheating because 'our' men serving also get lonely over there...but still we all make our choices. Hopefully, they aren't costly ones, good luck in your life and take care.

Answer 2

Okay, let me get this straight your husband is in Iraq fighting a war and your cheating on him, and you don't understand why people are getting upset. You should visit a se* store and buy yourself a toy, your husband could be killed he is performing a service for our country, and your performing for another man. I think that stinks. Also, you could not get him for abandonment, he is working, protecting our country, please read a book, buy a toy, go on a diet, do something other than what your doing, I understand that you are lonley, but, don't you have friends, children a job? Thats not right. Cheating never is you are getting yourself in a mess. When your husband gets back how do you think he's gonna feel and don't you think that some of these people who are getting upset might tell him while he is in Iraq, could you live with youself if something happened to him (God forbid) and you were with someone else. What happen to your vows, my husband can be a real pain in the a** sometimes but, I would never cheat on him, didn't you know he was in the milatary before you married him, if you did you knew that there was a chance he would one day have to go to war and in that case you shouldn't have married him if you couldn't cope he needed you to be strong, and faithful.

Your right your not the first and your won't be the last but you could have been better. I pray your husband will return home safe and you will remember the reason you married him.

Answer 3

Whether he went into the military before or after you got married you knew what you were in for. It is women like you that should wake up. My sister has been married to a marine for 10 years and gone through 3 deployments and never I repeat never cheated. Our military men and women are over in another country giving you the freedom to do as you wish and you reward that with infidelity. And as far as abandonment you will never win. You knew either way what you were getting into and you knew that there was a chance that he would be deployed so that alone negates abandonment. You need to just divorce him so that a woman that would respect love and support him can have him. You not only give military wives a bad name but also women all over. You need to grow up or move back home to mommy and daddy. To think he is over there fighting for you and you stoop so low to cheat on him. I think you and whoever you are cheating with should be locked up in levenworth.

Report me I dont care.

Answer 4

I'm going to assume, he's military. Or a contractor there.

If he's military, that's his job. If he's a contractor, he knew that he'd go when he took the job. A smart hubby would have talked it over with you first.

If you choose to play around on him, while he's getting shot at, or sitting behind a fence, that's your decision. but abandonment is not an option for divorce, if he's military. And abandonment takes 7 years of being gone, the last time I looked.

Some people would think you took wedding vows, to love, honor and cherish. Cheating wasn't part of it. :shrug:

Answer 5

Dear, I disagree w/ all this ppl and their patriotism, I understand he is in the military and serving the country, ( same as my hubby) but we r also have disires & needs, its natural to want some loving and care. I am alone already 2nd year, 1st year i was ok w/ my toys & adult movies, besides i was breastfeeding so I didnt have much desires. BUT now I am soooooooooo horny & lonely, I need mens attention, their appreciation and feeling of being desired. I met someone and planning to keep this affair untill my hubby returns. Don't stress your body - enjoy the life, satisfy your needs, when your hubby returns everything will come to its place. The main key is: don't envolve much emotions in your affairs, that way when your husband comes back you'll get back to the old family routine. So do not fall in love and separate love from just a sex.

Answer 6

because of fact which you have been there you may probable think of the strain it particularly is taking that's toll. Coupled with the actual undeniable fact that his ex cheated, i can think of what he's questioning, somewhat while he has no administration over his life suitable now. i think of you will desire to easily keep reassuring him which you're committed and attempt to be supportive of him. Reassure him which you're waiting for him and in step with probability deliver him some particular presents to assist him whilst he's lacking you.

Answer 7

I think you have your information mixed up. Your husband is serving his country.Making this pplace a better place frou and everyone else.
You obviously don't love him, so why don't you just get a divorce. That way you can find someone else who will probably abandon you because you were just a fling anyway.

I hate to be cruel...but you seem angry and hostile because your husband, and American sldier is serving his country. He should be your hero. I know he is on of mine. God bless the American soldiers!!!!

Answer 8

Wow you have a lot of nerve asking something like that. I'm an Army wife and to see women like you acting like that gives the good wives bad names. You married someone in the military, Deployments are going to happen. I feel sorry for your husband and I hope he leaves you and finds someone worth coming home to.

Answer 9

You are the worst of all the whores, he is fighting for our country and you can't even stop to think of what he is going through each day, so you can have your freedom and do what you wish, by the sound of it your doing a very good job of cheating. Your the kind of woman who gives the rest of bad names.

Answer 10

This question is BULLSH*T PROPAGANDA!
As of July 27, this "Athena" guy has been on Yahoo!Answers for less than one week, has asked 16 questions, and 15 of them have had to do with cheating on "her husband in Iraq". (Oops! That was 10 minutes ago--now he's up to 18, and 17!) This guy just wants Americans in Iraq to read this bullsh*t and worry about their spouses back home. "Athena," I hope an American bullet sends you to meet Allah with pigsh*t still smeared on your c*ck.

G.I.'s, WE LOVE YOU AND SUPPORT YOU!
Kick @SS carefully, and come home safe!

Answer 11

just divorce him there is no love you r right you wont be the last give your husband my info cause he needs a good woman waiting for him how dear you abandonment