not necessarily cheating...but have you done smthng really bad to break you guys up... and then gotten your partner back after the breakup? if so, explain the situation..and how did you get your sweetheart back?
(what did you say, what did you do? and no, flowers wont work this time)
2006-07-27 14:33:59 · 14 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, but I won't share. Best that we learn from mistakes and not do them again.
2006-07-27 14:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there- yes, been there and done that. The best way to get a guy back, is to stay away from him. Pyschologically men are wired different them girls. If you stay away, and it's so hard to do, and be busy, work onyour own stuff, and give him no attention. He will wonder why you are not begging him back. It's the hardest thing to do in the world but it works.
My ex moved out of my house, and I was so mad, I cut off all communications. IT took a few weeks, but he was begging to come back.
If you have apologized, you don't need to keep doing it. Take back the power, don't be around, let him wonder what you are up to. THere will be plenty of time for apologies later, plus you already did so I am sure. Let him think of what he's missing, once he thinks you moved on, he will be missing you.
I hope this helps.
2006-07-27 14:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by farmhouse168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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"this time"??? hmmmm sounds like you goofed more than once.
You want us to give you an answer how to manipulate getting him back?
If that is the case, your partner is getting fed up with your being so SELF CENTERED.
How to fix it? You have to fix YOU first.
You have to figure out how to STOP thinking of what YOU want when YOU want it, (poo on his feelings)
You have to start being genuinely giving and sharing in an equal and balance way. You have to give up total control, and share in decisions.
You probably can't do that for long. He knows that now.
Try group counseling, and change yourself.
Let him know....keep going to group sessions,
and maybe, just maybe, he'll give you another chance
uh, until you do it again!
stw
:)
2006-07-27 14:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i taking u did something really bad huh, well i have done some bad stuff in my relationship it didnt cause us to divorce but pretty damn close . u just have to give it time dont expect ur prtner do be ok with everything it happened dont act like it never did, it is going ot take time for the trust to come back. it is frustrating, my husband was like 99% ready to get rid of me but we have kids so he stuck around, we are good now i just had to contend to his rules and his feelings. it takes a long time depending on the reason u broke up. just say ur sorry like all the time and PROVE TO OUR LOVED ONE U DO LOVE THEM
2006-07-27 14:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I question why the awful thing was done to begin with. Sounds like the relationship wasn't a good thing anyway... why continue?
2006-07-27 14:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by wendyc222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I called a girl the wrong name while we were making out.
2006-07-27 14:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by JAR2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i slapped her in the face and told her that she needed to improve her self. i got her back because i gave her a massive orgasm that she couldn't handle and told her that she can have this if she be a good gurl. hey babe sorry i told everyone how you got back with me!!!!
2006-07-27 14:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i accidentaly pushed my gf out of a tree while making out, she broke her back. i went to go visit her in the hospital but i didn't get her back.
2006-07-27 14:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by berumcobbfloosbeilding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
took off with the Hawaiian Tropic girls on their tour bus across America.
I was their lotion boy!
uh she was jealous so of course she took me back!
2006-07-27 14:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i did alot of smothering i learned u ccan't do that to men because they need their space..to think of the situation they r in ..so dont do it
2006-07-27 14:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by DaNeLLe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋