2006-07-27 14:23:58 · 23 answers · asked by alyson f 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tough Question....You Could Ask Her..But Then She Might Think That You Are Meddling In Her Life And That Is One Thing That You Don't Need Her Thinking....Of Course You Would Just Be Asking Because You Care..But Sometimes People Take Things Wrong...She Could Aslo Get Offended If You Accuse Her Of Being Pregnant And She's Not...But On The Other Hand It May Be A Good Thing..But Keep In Mind It's A Very Tricky Situation..Start Of By Saying That You Are Worried About Her And If She Needs Anything To Know That You Are Always There For Her...Then She Will Feel Comfortably With Your Realtionship And May Open Up To You...If She Chooses Not To Tell You Then That Is Her Choice You Tried To Help..Just Remember Don't Ask Out Right If She Is Pregnant..Just Let Her Know She Can Tell You Everything...Good Luck..
2006-07-27 14:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by EvEl_LiL_kArEbEaR 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I hear this crap all the time in my school, rumors about pregnant girls fly everywhere, especially after summer, spring, and Christmas breaks. If she's one of those girls who's spreading it around the school like wildfire, but has no proof, like her stomach swelled larger than her head, then she's probably not pregnant. Wait a few months, usually 3-5, to see if there are any changes. If there are and she shows the fatness of pregnancy, congrats to her, she has to take care of a newborn and do nothing fun for 6 months to a year, cuz that's the time it takes for a baby to recognize who it's true mother is, and the mother can not leave her baby to a babysitter or anyone else in that time. Why do you think so many pregnant girls drop outta school? Cuz they have to take care of the baby themselves. No ones going to mommy her own child after she has been the same for however many years, and if they do, then she's one of those girls who has everything done for her so she doesn't have to face her own problems. Honestly though, if she is pregnant, it's her problem, so she should take care of it. It's her fault if she decided to have s** with a guy, and if he leaves her, that'll just cause bigger problems. I'm trying not to sound like a mother, but truth is hard sometimes. If she is pregnant, best of luck to her.
P.S.- If you really wanna know that bad, get an adult to buy a pregnancy test and shove it up her *****, other than that, you won't ever know until you see signs.
2006-07-27 14:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Karana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I would come right out and ask. I think I'd say some things to give her the opportunity to tell you and seek your input if she wants it. You might say, "Is everything okay? You seem distracted lately." Or you might say, "You seem upset. Is there anything I can help with?" Or, "Are you okay? You know you can tell me anything. I'm here for you." If she is and she tells you, just be certain you don't try to tell her what to do (or tell anyone else about it), but instead, just be there for her and listen and be supportive. There is no "one size fits all" answer to a pregnancy, and she will have to find the right answer for her. Just let her know she's not alone.
2006-07-27 14:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her life not yours. You shouldn't be interfering. If she is im sure she will tell you when she's ready (unless there's more to it, like your friend is under age or something)
Don't ask her though. NEVER ask some one if they are pregnant. It's rude and disrespectful. It's up to the person if they want other people to know there pregnant.
Maybe she gained some weight. Now wouldn't that be embarassing if you asked her?
2006-07-27 14:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY is there a need for you to do anything? If she wants you to know she is pregnant, she will tell you. Soon, it will be obvious anyway. And if she is not pregnant, you will not have insulted her by asking her.
Chow!!
2006-07-27 14:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASk her in a joking way like """girl you losing weight good thing cause you dont want look fat like a pregnant person"" and she what her facial expression is like. Confused look-She's pregnant Laughing or normal look-She's not
2006-07-27 14:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask her. Dont let her change the subject! Then if she wont tell her parents then you might have to! She will need support!
2006-07-27 14:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah ask her & tell her you're there for her when she needs you and she can talk to you about anything. and get her some help??? -- that is, if she is pregnant.
2006-07-27 14:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by kaelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask, and buy her a pregnancy test, she will understand if you are best friends.
2006-07-27 14:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ilovedogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true friend she will tell you when the time is right.
2006-07-27 14:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋