he's very angry after 9 yrs. and i don't want the baby to see this. theres no physical abuse, but the anger and the mental/and/or emotional would be enough. he's a great father.he also owns the house. but i own EVERYTHING in it. i want my stuff back and i want my son to keep his father.what to do, what to do?
2006-07-27 14:20:20 · 5 answers · asked by Sherri B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are pretty much screwed - if you were married you would have a way to seek your share of the marital coffers, buy you chose to "live in sin" "shack up" or whatever you kids are calling it these days. You probably told your family that getting married was "just a piece of paper" Well that piece of paper would keep your son from being illegitimate, gave you a share of the equity in your home, and now you are on the street - the court will probably even give your boyfriend custody because he has a home for him to live in. Congratulations on your progressive, forward thinking.
2006-07-27 14:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sleepy Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is what you have to sacrifice for both. Not all marriage and commitment are very successful. They must attached with lots and lots of understanding, endurance, give and take, etc, most important is be forgiving al the time. I can see that you still have so much that you can't let go this relationship. Try to reconcile for a win win situation. Be cool when handle relationship, do not start an argument it won't help in solving problems. Always one party has to be silent. There is a Chinese saying "A hundred endurance is golden" & "silent is golden".
2006-07-27 14:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its basically up to what you want to do? If this is in a community property state, then no problem. If not, you can sue for primary parental custody with child support, with your bf getting state standard visitation rights. The rest you two will have to sit down and work things out amongst yourselves. Breakups are not easy and the law can only do so much. Good luck
2006-07-27 14:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring the kid to his mothers house or a friends house for him to pick up. Set aside your anger for the kid and ask dad to do the same.
Let the x bf know you are taking your things from the house.....then when he is at work. bring in a truck and lots of help and clean out your stuff. Just be sure you aren't ready to go back with him
2006-07-27 14:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a lawyer to get your stuff back and to make arrangements for your son to spend time with his father and to get child support.
2006-07-27 14:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋