asked him why he was telling me? Now I really have a reason to end it. Should I? Even though I am not angry?
2006-07-27 14:09:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you felt nothing. Then why do you care now? If you were just looking for a reason then I guess this is it! Thats a no brainer!
2006-07-27 15:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dana J 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
If you aren't angry with him and you both love eachother then maybe you should consider counseling. There are some issues in your marriage if he's cheated and you don't have any feeling about his infidelity. Most spouses would be upset, hurt, angry, etc - sounds like you are emotionally detached.
Keep in mind that he did at least come clean and tell you. That shows that he cares or felt bad enough about what happened - which could be a good sign that with some counseling you can work things out and get your marriage back on track.
2006-07-27 21:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with your fiance is getting sour and that's why you feel nothing neither angry nor upset. Perhaps you are too long together with him which making your love spark gone.
I don't know whether in future your fiance will continue to cheat at the back of you but i'm sure he will coz once he has tried it before, he will certainly unable to overcome himself on any seducing or lust from young & attractive woman.
Its' your choice - to continue with him with a forgiving heart or to leave him and start afresh with else one.
2006-07-27 21:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he cheated... and the fact that you aren't that upset about it, tells me you two have drifted far apart. Probably time to decide if you want to work things out, or if these are signs your relationship has run its course and it's over.
2006-07-27 21:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Regularguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why are you not mad? do you want a disease? do you wanna die of aids? thats nasty girl . think about it.
if i was cheated on there is no doubt in my mind I WOULD LEAVE ASAP and i havea child
thats sick and how can you marry someone like that? what about when you are 60 and dont have sex anymore and he wants to? you think he will be faithful then? yea rite
2006-07-27 21:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be angry to make an intelligent decision. End it...
apparently, he wants to, also.
2006-07-27 21:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by elcycer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice, you know he's a cheater, and really doesn't honor your relationship. If that is okay for you in the future, oh well......
2006-07-27 21:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you shoould
2006-07-27 21:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, you don't love him. Your marriage won't last.
2006-07-27 21:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by elyslittleangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋