Not even a question really .. Just going through divorce , its the most painful thing I have ever felt .. I left all my family and friends behind and am trying to start my life over .. it feels so impossible now , I lost all that I loved and it feels like that will never come back , life is agony I just dont want to live it anymore .. anyone ever been there ?
2006-07-27 14:07:54 · 10 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is awful but, does get better, Its kind of like someone dying on you. The pain is great and the wondering what I did drives me nuts. Just hang in there and things will be better.
2006-07-27 14:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is probably the hardest thing we experience in life. Its not the divorce itself thats scary,it the unexpected change in life it brings. It hurts to lose the one you love and trusted for however long. But as much as we want to lay down and die, life goes on. Alot of people do it everyday. Just take one day at a time and tomorrow will take care of itself and yesterday is gone. Dont worry about future loves, but what is at hand. The worst thing you could do was to abdondon your family and friends because believe it or not, they are exactly who willhelp get you thru this trying period, so back track a little and repick up some help. People are tough, with time and help they rebound from anything and so will you. It wont be easy and dont do it alone. God doesnt give us more then we can handle, even if it seems like he long gone, hes right along side of us. There are help groups out there that will help you thru the pain if you so desire. Dont let this bad time dictate your future and dont ever be scared to love again when and it will reappear. Good luck
2006-07-27 14:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never say that any 'pain' is worse than another and i would gather that people that have lost a child would argue with you, but from personal experience, it is unbelievable pain. I remember back when it felt like my life was over, like i would not survive another night - heck i didn't want to. Seemed like everything was crashing down around me. I *strongly* recommend a good counselor in dealing with divorce - it helped me a great deal. Keep breathing, stay verticle, it *will* get better I promise.
Go and listen to the song 'bless the broken road' by a group called rascal flatts and believe it can happen. God Bless.
2006-07-27 14:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by 2thseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm there now and yes it is the hardest thing. I'm on the verge of a divorce b/c of the way my husband cheated & treated me. Some days are better than others. I've been told that the only thing worse than leaving a bad marriage is staying in one. Good luck.
2006-07-27 14:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by njlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am on the brink of divorce myself. I caught my husbanded cheating on me a month ago. We were together for 15 years married for 3 and have two children. I feel like my whole world has fallen apart. My kids, family and friends keep me going day to day. If i didn't have them I would not be able to get out of bed everyday. Take this time to focus on you and if you have kids poor your heart into them. Do some nice things for yourself. Get a new hair do, or buy some new clothes. This is a new beginning for you. Just take it day by day. If you are spiritual ask God to walk with you. Reconnect with your family and friends their love is unconditional. Pull your strength from your loved ones.
2006-07-27 15:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably from about that age, 13, until eventually 17-18 each and every in certain situations even longer, youthful little ones choose little to do with their moms and dads.... i imagine you'll discover some convenience in understanding that with suggestions from being an striking dad you've given her such countless memories that she'll continually have. I easily do not imagine it ought to remember in case you've been a billionaire, she ought to nonetheless be appearing like this. socializing such as her friends is the biggest element in the present day, it really is difficult because it skill you recognize a lot less about her and she spends a lot less time at homestead. Its regular progression concept. the appropriate element you may do is save on being a being concerned, in contact, and worried dad - hopefully she'll open as a lot as you at the same time as it concerns by those next few difficult years.
2016-11-26 19:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do something dont sit around all day. get it off your mind. ive never been divorced and i dont wanna even think about it.
but youl be fine, yes youll be scared, but you can over come and achieve.
did you go to college? if not go now!!!
do you have a good job? if not get one!!!
is there anything youve ever wanted to do but never got to? do it!!
think of this as a blessing of a new beginning starting over for the better and finally being free from pain!
2006-07-27 14:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you and I are both living it at the same time. Mine left me on June 1st to go be with a woman he met on-line and he had never met. I came home from work and found a "Dear John" letter. The hurt is INCREDIBLE! The pain is awful and no one understands how you really feel. I know how you feel. If you need to talk please feel free to e-mail me at : carolscreation@yahoo.com Hang in there.
2006-07-27 14:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet, and you are correct, your life seems to just be falling to pieces around your ears. But you know what???? The best way to heal a broken heart is to find someone else..... Do I have a story to hell you ...write me, and I will. It couldn't be worse than mine, I promise you...
2006-07-27 14:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was almost there and it was the most gut wrenching painful thing ever. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
2006-07-27 14:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋