Now I may be wrong,there may be some guys out there who understand women.But I can be freinds with a women for a year and still not understand her.Now that im trying to be a one woman man I thought I needed to understand them too,but I did'nt know it would be this hard.I've saw the movie Hitch 8 times and I still can't get a ravel on them.Is this normal or am I just slow? I try so hard not say the wrong thing,if I say this the girl all of a sudden thinks im calling her fat,if I say that then the girl thinks I want sex.What is up with this people,help me please!
2006-07-27 14:06:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
its just you
2006-07-27 14:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal because they are a different sex.They have different needs and attitudes,that's what makes some people think they're better than the other sex.Because women/men act a certain way and they don't even bother to look at what they're sex does.Well men and women are different no worse no better were the same but in the same were both different.And I don't think we can understand the opposite sex its just part of life.I hope I answered your question.
2006-07-27 23:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Robert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you really want to know??
Asking a girl on Friday for a date on Saturday is completely unacceptable. Keyword: Planning
Shave every day. One day's growth of facial hair is worse than a girl not shaving her legs for a week.
We may be emotional beings, but do not lie to squirm your way out of trouble. We are not as gullible as you think.
Learn to clean up the toilet. If peeing standing up is so difficult and you are bound to miss, then may we suggest that you learn to use a toilet brush and sponge to clean up after yourself.
We really don't find it attractive when you stand there stratching yourself in the morning, afternoon or night- please do it in private.
Don't do it, if you're not going to follow-thru. A woman would rather not have sex at all, than to have it and miss the climax by a mile because you weren't up for the challenge.
Don't fix it if it's really not broke. You don't need to take everything apart out of curiosity.
Ask for directions
If you said you are going to be somewhere at a certain time, then do it. Don't expect us to wait around.
Professional Wrestling and Soap Opera's are the same story lines, just different costumes. So don't make fun of us for being hooked on Y&R when you are hooked on WWF.
"I don't feel like talking right now" is an acceptable thing to say- Unacceptable thing to do is sit there and pretend you're listening and just say "uh huh" and "yes Dear"- it's condescending.
Get rid of your holey underwear.
If you can ogle so can we!
One remote is ENOUGH... no need to have a control tower in your living room.
Couch Potato is not a sport, so don't try to be an All-star at it!
Your way is not always the right way. Learn to say- "I was wrong"
If we can't talk to you during a football game, then don't try to get our attention during Ally McBeal.
If you say you are going to do something, then just do it. Don't sit around thinking of creative excuses why you couldn't get to it.
We are not your mothers, so don't expect us to clean up after you like one.
SkyLine Chili is not considered a romantic dinner for two.
We have other friends of the male gender, so leave your jealousy at the door!
If you concede to let us decorate the house without any input from you, then don't complain when everything is in frilly flowers, and pink motif.
When wearing a dress shirt, wear an undershirt underneath. Nothing worse than seeing a man's hairy chest and nipples through his shirt. (PINK PINK PINK)
Hey, we CAN be friends with our ex's- so deal with it!
We understand that you have to put on a manly act in front of your friends, but in the privacy of your own home, it's okay if you just want to cuddle.
Good Luck...Hope that helps some..
2006-07-27 21:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gosh. . . i hate to tell you this but most women dont understand women!!! we are confusing and all different. there really is no way to know exactly how to please a woman. you will say the wrong thing every now and then- thats common. you arent slow. . . you are just as confused as the rest of us!! kudos for trying though! thats awesome! if you do say something the wrong way just apologize profusely and blame it on being a man. . .
2006-07-27 21:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't just u. try watching that Don Juan movie with Jonny Depp. this is normal, and don't worry. women tend to be over emotional about these things, just be upfront and sweet, but most importantly be yourself, other wise she'll just think you're a player
2006-07-27 21:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by bubblepup13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to understand women or one woman. Here's a clue. Talk to them, like they are actually people.
2006-07-27 21:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men coming from Mars, Women coming from Venus...
Maybe that's why...
2006-07-27 21:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just try to understand the one that you are with
it will be easier on you...plus women aren't meant to be understood we want it are way or no way
2006-07-27 21:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by midnite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get what you can. No one evr figures it out.
One of lifes mysteries.
Dont over think it.
2006-07-27 21:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, we can't figure ourselves out sometimes.
2006-07-27 21:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋