i rejected them all but one. the one that i really like but he just want me to have sex. what should i do?
2006-07-27 14:02:46 · 15 answers · asked by the young gir 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first get to kno him, lyk date him 4 a while, then u can have sex, by then he might lyk u for u nd not just 4 the sex, so it wont most likely b a one night stand.
2006-07-27 14:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 u shouldnt even be having sex is my opinion but i am 20 and there is a guy that is really hot and weve had sex once hes been asking 4 more i told him no i am looking 4 a relationship and not fun and he said he understands so we r cool as friends w/ no benefits!!!!!!! and ive been talking 2 a really nice guy and thats not all hes after so there r guys out there that actually want a relationship and not just sex!!!!!!
2006-07-27 21:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by hottie#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with him, he'll loose respect for you and treat you like dirt after wards. He's just a boy and not a mature man. And if a mature man wants to have sex with you he's a pervert. Your 14 wait until your emotionally ready not just physically ready to handle possible rejection or consequences after wards. I've been there.
2006-07-27 21:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by nyc_villagegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll, i'm 14 n have da same problem... u dont need no guy dats just want u 4 ur body, find a guy dats gonna respect u whether or not u give it up 2 them.. as 4 da guy u really like u need 2 reject him 2, its gonna hurt u emotionally 4 a guy dat u really like dat wants 2 jus have sex with u cuz after u give it up he's not gonna want u ne more
2006-07-28 11:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by JayKaira F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young guys think the only reason to date is to have sex then they dump you. You need to tell them to take a cold shower. There is no need to be in a hurry to have sex with anyone unless you really want to. If the guys you like keep pressuring you. Tell them the opposite of what guys tell girls. "If you really care about me, don't ask," or "what part of no, don't you understand?"
2006-07-27 21:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's hella sad, guys say nice things to get in your pants, then leave you, believe me girl, because i know... i`ve been through it all. i`m almost 17... if you feel like you want to take the next step and having sex with... him do it, but use protection, i strongly recommend that.. like if he tries to do it without.. don't effin trust him. a lot of young girls get pregnent now-days. i mean your in that time, when you're feeling things.. you wanna go out there & explore. but be careful, & you're still young. ... and wouldn't you wanna be with someone because they love you for who you are. not what you have.. and what they can get, and then get butthurt later on.
2006-07-27 21:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by lissax3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get to know him before you have sex with him, because if he really likes you he will wait for you, and if he doesnt like you he will dump you because you wont have sex with him. and if you've only been going out with him for a short amount of time then you shouldnt give in to it cuz he might take advantige of you
2006-07-28 14:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by daloveofmylife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not worth it if he only wants to be with you for sex. and you're way too young to be having sex in the first place!! if he's a lot older then you, then he's also taking advantage of you
2006-07-28 14:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by twinky412 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say dont do it to him just wait for your time to come dont have sex with him make love to someone it will be beta that way instead of a little hit it and quit it
2006-07-27 21:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by naenae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him! AND hold off on sex!!! Girl what would you do if you got pregnant at your age???? Or some kinda STD????
2006-07-27 21:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by CHRISTINAS MOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋