I think my other is cheating. What to do????

Question

Lots of phone calls on the cell to this person, early morning late nite, I don't really know this person all that well, but when this person is around they avoid me, won't even look or talk to me.

Answer 1

If you really believe that your mate is cheating on you and they are making these phone calls.......If the calls are being made in a place where you can do it then........
Hide a tape recorder in the room where the phone conversations are taking place and then you will find out.

Or you could corner this other person and ask them point blank.
You can tell alot by just watching their body language when you ask.

Answer 2

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My heart goes out to you. I'm sorry you've given your heart to a cheater.
You don't need anyone here to hit you over the head with a 2x4 The cell phone calls are called EVIDENCE.

The other woman can not look at you, because she is feeling hurt too. He's cheating you both, because he hasn't left you for her; and he won't give up her for you.
Why should he? He's got two women who are willing to blame each other with whatever lies he tells to get what he wants.

He tells her you're a btich. He'll tell you she's chasing him.
But you already know he's lying...the calls he's made to her.

You can't ever trust him again, and neither can she.
This guy is a real loser stud a$$hole.

Cry, blame HIM, not her, not you,
get mad,
and then get over this loser.

I suspect he's already been giving off signs he has unacceptable level of feelings for you. You instinctively knew he was not really in love with you.

Next time, look for someone that is more trustworthy, and respectful of your feelings. Someone who demonstrates loyality and willingness to commit to you, BEFORE you give all your heart.
Only give your heart in small increments equal to what you are receiving...
you're less likely to get hurt badly that way.

I wish you real love, (not this kind of farce, and usery)

stw
;p

Answer 3

It sounds like it could be a possibility. I would come right out and ask your partner what's going on and see what they have to say. Ask them to be completely honest because honesty is key to any relationship..without it, it just won't work. You never know, there's always that possibility, too, that the other person just likes your partner and there's really nothing going on. But you'll never know unless you discuss it! Good luck!

Answer 4

come right out and ask. if the story the person gives u is shady u then have a few options. 1. belive them 2. don't belive them.3. pretend u belive them and snoop untilu find out the real answer

Answer 5

if you think your significant other is cheating on you, confront them. If your other can't answer you clearly who that other person is, that's a problem. If they don't want to talk about it, where did the trust in the relationship go?

Answer 6

what do you want, a flashing sign? no offense, but why not just ask him/her up front? won't know until you ask. I don't care how good a liar a person thinks they are, cheaters always get found out.

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 7

Hate the player but dont hate the game.Really think about that and there is your answer.

Answer 8

the writings on the wall. get out! its too late.

Answer 9

be true 2 urself

Answer 10

confront your other, if he/she denies it... then tell your other to go ahead and cheat.... this usually makes the whole cheating game sour and is an adrenalin killer, then dump his/her sorry ***