I have constant dreams and an ongoing fantasy about my wife having group sex with a bunch of men while I watch. I fantasise about them taking turns screwing her and getting BJ's from her. My wife and I are very open with each other and when I told her she was shocked at first and then became very interested. Now I think she wants to do it. I never thought I would think this way. She is 29 and extremely hot. Am I crazy?
2006-07-27 13:45:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell no, My wife hasn't done a gang bang. But has had several lovers during our marrage. I love sharing her with other men and love to watch, or hear the details when she gets home. We've been married almost 20 years. and I believe her flings have not hurt our relationship. Your both adults so do what makes you both happy.
2006-07-27 13:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Farmboy45696 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're normal. I think it's pretty common, especially if you and your wife have a very sexually open and trusting relationship.
I would tell you to proceed with EXTREME caution! Work out all the details of what this might mean to your relationship BEFORE it decides for you. If both people are equally curious, are VERY emotionally devoted to one another's happiness, and you have excellent communication, then this could be something that would work for you in real life. If you are the slightest bit unsure of your partner's motives in his or her desire to try this, put on the brakes and start talking. You need to find out WHY you feel that way. There is NO room for guesswork. Sorry for so many all-caps, but there are many things that just can't be stressed enough about this. Fantasize lots, have lots of sex, talk until you want to puke and be sure to find out more about this. The message board in the link below is an excellent source of information.
2006-07-27 14:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello no. Everyone is a freak, they just supress it or don't admit it. My man and I are very open to having sex with other people. But you have to set limits and rules. Like will it only be men, or women too, can you have sex with the women? Is kissing allowed? Are you strong enough to actually watch her getting banged by another man? Set the ground rules - that is very important, and go slow. Have fun and enjoy each other, so long as you two are comfortable I do not see the problem.
2006-07-27 13:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by black_bi_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are on the same page and really thinking about how you would feel about her having sex with others and the chance that you could change how you feel and lose her then go for it. Honesty is very very important in your relationship right now. Don't screw up and do something you may regret. Fantasies are not always meant to be acted out
2006-07-27 13:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by rascal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not strange, having sexual fantasies isnt a bad thing, actting upon them if they deviate from your marriage is bad.. but leaving them in your mind isnt bad.. and u cant control what u dream about.. so i wouldnt worry about it unless it becomes a problem for u..
2006-07-27 13:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bad illusion. Those dreams are probably comining from the deep parts of the
west side of hell. pray, pray, pray, you need to be delivered.
2006-07-27 13:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, not crazy, you just have a fetish, its up to you guys to persue it if you want, but be carefull, this may lead to problems down the road
2006-07-27 13:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're crazy man
2006-07-27 19:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by asian_man_admires_bbw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a normal fantasy .If she is willing go for it.
2006-07-27 13:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not at all. let het do it. BUT you must control who's banging her. plus you get to watch and join in at your discretion. very cool!!!
2006-07-27 13:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by pete cochino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋