Of course, the husband still loves his wife like anything. He may just decide that he doesn't like sex any more.
2006-07-27 13:28:03 · 17 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In this scenario there is nothing wrong with either the husband or the wife. The husband isn't up to anything weird.
2006-07-27 13:33:11 · update #1
That is common. I would suggest be intimate in different ways. Cuddle alot. Sex is not everything if the intimacy is there. In most cases it is better for the relationship. From my experience and other friends of mine the intimacy(non-sexual) keep theirs' and my marriage together. I would also check why the husband feels this way(illness, medication or stress) can cause this. Then talk to her and your doctor. Let her know it doesn't mean you love her any less, actually your relationship has gone to a higher level.
2006-07-27 13:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by elyslittleangel 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
The wife has the right to know why her husband wants less sex. And what about her needs? Maybe she still wants lots of sex, then what? Something is happening to someone who suddenly doesn't want sex. Get a physical checkup, and if that doesn't answer any questions, see a therapist. If your general practitioner is giving you antidepressants, look up the medication on the internet. Many antidepressants take away a man's sex drive.
2006-07-27 13:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a husband doesn't want to have sex anymore and tells his wife, you have to think that there is something else going on. (If the situation was reversed and the wife told the husband that she didn't want sex as often, I would say the same thing.) If there is not, and they love each other unconditionally, the wife should understand and be able to compromise on how often they have sex.
2006-07-27 13:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by mommy of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His wife needs to be very sensitive to his feelings and NOT accuse him of adultry right off the bat!! He needs to understand, she has the right to ask what's going on and request you go see the Dr. and you should, w/o hesitation do as she asks, after all, she is having to sustain her own wants, desires, and needs from the man she loves!!
But, men just don't lose interest in sex!! There has to be a reason; physical, emotional, or getting it somewhere else!! Since he still loves his wife, an affair prob. is not the reason!
Before you tell your wife, ask yourself; "what is it about sex w/ my wife I don't like?" "if I took her out of the equation, would it be enjoyable again?" "am I just being lazy" "do I feel like a man, do I get the respect I deserve?" and so on
2006-07-27 14:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Dolphinmarine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that he is having issues with his manhood.. meaning.. either the lack of desire, or the equipment isnt working ect. which is very common in a man over the age of 30.. but just like a man would want us to be patient and understanding he to has to realize, that this is very hard on the emotions of the wife, makes her feel unattractive, makes her feel self concious like she cant satisfy her man and she to can become very insecure, and very depressed.. The husband needs to realize that he needs to do all he can to fix this problem.. even going to the doctors cause it could be a lack of testosterone in his body or depression causing this.. But women NEED to feel desired, and wanted, and craved, and with out that she feels less like a woman.. and all though shes your wife, she also needs to feel like a woman and not just someone that has a title and does a maids job in the house..
2006-07-27 13:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL there is no man on earth that wants less sex. Something is wrong. I think you need to go to the doctor to find out what it is. This is not normal behavior for a man.
G.G.
2006-07-27 13:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should talk to him & try find how why.
What are his reasons? Why wouldnt he like sex anymore?? The guy shouldnt be forced to do anything he doesnt want to do, but he should conside how his wifes going to feel (unattractive, unwanted). Maybe couple therapy would help.
2006-07-27 13:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by kah35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the husband how great she thinks the idea is, b/c frankly sex w/ the husband is making the wife sick to her stomach. thank him, and then finish cooking him dinner, washing the dishes, and sweeping the floors.
2006-07-27 13:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deserves to know why. Perhaps she needs to look at herself and see how much her appearance has changed and if that may be why He is backing off. There are problems that must be addressed if the marriage is to survive.
2006-07-27 13:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure my hubby was like that then when he did finally want it I held out and he had a fit and felt insecure just like I felt when he did it to me I no longer have this problem
2006-07-27 13:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋