Whats wrong with me? Am I gay?

Question

Ok heres whats going on:

I really dont find girls all that sexually attractive... I mean they're hot but I dont wanna have sex with one. And the only chicks that I'd even consider being involved with sexually are celebrities like Lil Kim, Jessica Alba, or Gwen Stefani. Other than that I'd make out with any cute girl all day long ^_^

But on the other hand I do find alot of guys extremely attractive as well and theres more guys i'd rather be with in that way.

now im confused.. am I gay or what?? Bi maybe? Remember I do like chicks... I just dont wanna have sex with one.

Answer 1

Same way. Anyone else would call me gay. I call myself queer just out of some weird sense of idealism. Ignore it and call me gay. =P

Girls, I must say, can be amazingly hot. But vagina? Icky. (That's not hating, ladies—just personal preference.)

Guys, I must say, are much hotter. I'd much rather have sex with one of those. I should know; I've had sex with both sexes.

At any rate, there's nothing wrong with you. You're probably not straight. Big deal. Not everyone is.

I'd guess you and I are both pretty sure you're not straight, right? You may be gay, you may be bi. You may not like either of those labels and opt to just call yourself queer. Go for it. You can say you're a cloud-eating llama. Big deal. It doesn't matter what you call yourself. It matters who you are, and how accepting you are of that.

Let me say it again just so you know how important it is: There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Society will sometimes tell you otherwise, sure. Again, big deal. Society says lots of silly things (like not to use your fingers to eat things that it's easier and more functional to eat with fingers than utensils). Society also changes—in another thirty years, it'll be largely different. They won't be saying all of the same things.

Live your life beautifully. Live it as yourself, not in fear of others.

Hope everything works out wonderfully for you.

Answer 2

That sounds like me..lol. I think Gwen Stefani is so gorgeous, and I probably would have sex with her... but I definitely am gay. Maybe just 3% bi or something.. You should try things out with guys and see if it works. You sound more gay to me.

Answer 3

Hard to tell. Could be bi, but you'll never know until you try to be with either a guy or girl sexually. See which you like better. try the guy first since you don't wanna have sex with a girl

Answer 4

You are very young and are most likely Gay, give yourself time and just go with the flow, but don't be afraid to express what you are feeling. It is easy in an open forum where people don't know you, but be open with your friends that is also how you find out who truly cares for you as friend.

Answer 5

"....I do find a lot of guys extremely attractive as well adn theres more guys i'd rather be with in that way..."

You're bi and could be gay. You'll know immediately when you have one in your mouth. That's how I found out myself.

Answer 6

you're probably bi, but you shouldn't be so wrapped up. if you start wanting guys, then go out with some guys. see what happens. if you want to see what girls are like, go out with girls. love may find you some day, in female or male form. until that day comes however, just go with the flow and just be happy with who you are.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Being gay is not normal. Being who your not is not normal either.You dont have to sign up for either side yet , but take the time to examine the pros and cons of any life changing decisions before you make them.

Answer 9

Maybe you're a late bloomer with girls. however if you're really gay it's okay. it's who you are. the best thing to do is accept it and deal with it, don't run. you are not cursed by this regardless of what people/society says. Bottom line, be thankful for who/what you are.

Answer 10

ok, if you are more sexually attracted to guys, then I would say you're gay...and there is nothing wrong with that!
I like guys...but don't want to have sex with 'em. I love women...I'm a lesbian. I accept that and my friends and family accept me....nothing wrong with that!