to the world why do men have to have a wife and a lover?

Question

men do this all the time .why are our men like this.

Answer 1

because men are pigs. they got the woman they want to marry, feel they need more excitment in their lives after getting what they want so they go out to get the unattainable -- the mistress. it's all about getting what they can't have and the forbidden, it's all a game.

Answer 2

Actually, women *do* play a part in all this, contrary to popular belief.

Many women program themselves for misery (with statements like "Why are all the good ones taken?":: restated as:: "If he's taken, he must be good; if he's single, he must be terrible"), by only choosing to pursue what they can't have. Married men, in other words.

That leaves a lot of unfulfilled single guys, who when they get married, finally have options and start sleeping around. Add to this the single guys who, out of desperation, do stupid crap like getting into relationships with women they don't love, and marrying those women, simply to get laid more often, and you have big time problems. Getting laid then = having babies, and pretty soon you have the adult offspring of People Who Did Stupid Crap. At that point, Darwin's Law of Natural Selection takes over, and the quality guys (who don't cheat on women) are quickly bred out of existence.

In short, if you want men to change, stop using sex as a manipulative tool. It would make everyone happier in the long run.

Answer 3

Unfortunately almost all men like this kind of life, It's excited for them. It's hard to find someone different. Where is he???

Answer 4

I'm not like that. I don't see the point to put myself through excessive stress and conflict with having more than one woman.

It's stupid to have more than one.

Answer 5

This isn't very clear...if they're straight they're going to want to be with a woman...that's that.

Answer 6

tiffelau168 put it quite nicely