ma friend is going out with this guy.. but he's a player and she doesnt understand that he doesnt like her..
i know that he doesnt like her because he told me and EVERYONE at my school knows BUT HER.. the sad part is that he's only going out with her so dat he can get close to me.. i like him BUT I WOULD NEVER GO OUT WITH HIM..
should i tell my friend?
2006-07-27 13:07:49 · 22 answers · asked by latinababe_12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are really her friend that you should try to tell her and try not to hurt her. I know that sounds hard and it is. But you are her friend and she should know.
2006-07-27 13:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Fotios 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably knows too. If she doesn't know it won't be long before she finds out. Don't tell your friend, just be there to help her up when she falls down. She'll appreciate your help more then, rather than your being the bearer of unwanted news.
Friends are precious, rare and hard to come by. Treasure them and hold them close to your heart. A true friend will never say or do anything that would hurt the other one.
2006-07-27 13:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. If you are truely a best friend, then you'd do what is right and not what everyone else thinks. Try and prove it to her, but catching him saying it and you taping it or something. Just tell her, as a true friend, but be there for her if he breaks up with her. And be a shoulder for her to cry on. She can always date a new guy, but she can never make a new best friend like you.
2006-07-27 13:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by * Flave' * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone should tell her so she can walk away with some dignity. If you do it, chances are it will back fire in your face. I also think you should forget the guy if you value her friendship, you said "you like him". A player is a player, no matter how much he likes you, when he's done with you.........he's done.
2006-07-27 13:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, but not the part about him liking u. just tell her the truth. Cause that r what friends are for to watch each others backs.
2006-07-27 13:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by jus nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it will probably hurt her feelings she'll get over it and remember your friend DESERVES to know the truth she's worth more than a "player" anywho.
2006-07-27 13:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happen to me. Tell your friend asap. Then ask that guy out treat him like a king for a while then break his heart. Guys like that are scum.
2006-07-27 13:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by LA LA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Answer to your ? Yes you should tell her it will only get worse if it keep's going on and she'll get hurt in the end . I hate seeing guy's like that it bug's me .
Kathy
2006-07-27 13:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are they going out in the first place you have 2 before she gets too attached and cmon girls are forever boys are whatever esp the player's type its better to be honest look out for her and reject that pig!
2006-07-27 13:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by easybreezy beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your motive is right, but it's likely she wont listen to you. So it would be a waste of your time. Let her find out on her own.
2006-07-27 13:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋